10/22/2025
When you live with health anxiety, it’s easy to fall into patterns of trying to feel safe. These “safety behaviors” are the things you do to reduce uncertainty or discomfort about your health but, ironically, they’re the very things that keep the anxiety going. Three common types of safety behaviors are reassurance seeking, excessive body checking, and preventive behaviors.
Reassurance seeking includes asking loved ones for constant reassurance, researching symptoms online, or visiting doctors and requesting tests to make sure nothing serious is happening. Body checking involves repeatedly scanning your body, touching or pressing areas that feel “off,” checking your pulse, blood pressure, or heart rate, or examining your skin or eyes for signs of illness. Preventive behaviors include going to great lengths to avoid perceived danger, like reading endlessly about how to prevent diseases, carrying “safe” items or people with you, or researching hospitals before going somewhere new.
While these actions bring short-term relief, they reinforce the belief that you’re only safe when you’re vigilant or certain about your health. We want to break this cycle by helping you gradually reduce these behaviors and build tolerance for uncertainty. The goal isn’t to eliminate all caution, but to learn that you can handle not knowing everything about your body or health.
Start by noticing when you engage in safety behaviors and what emotions or thoughts drive them. Next, experiment with small reductions. For example, delay checking your symptom or asking for reassurance for a set amount of time. Practice sitting with the discomfort rather than reacting immediately to it. When you do, you teach your brain that anxiety can rise and fall naturally, even without reassurance.
Over time, this helps your brain learn a new association: uncertainty doesn’t equal danger. The less you rely on safety behaviors, the less power anxiety has over you. Getting better involves learning to live peacefully with the parts of life that are uncertain.
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