12/29/2025
Sometimes the hardest grief isn’t about what you lost—it’s about the life you thought you’d be living by now.
When life doesn’t look like you expected, it can stir shame, comparison, self-blame, or the urge to push through and pretend you’re fine. But healing asks for something gentler than that.
It starts by naming what is in your control, and releasing what never truly was. By letting yourself reflect honestly—without judgment—on what didn’t turn out the way you hoped. By allowing your story to change without seeing that change as failure.
It looks like small, daily acts of care. Like learning to hold contentment and desire at the same time. Like refusing to spiritually or emotionally bypass pain just to feel “positive.” And like honoring the person you are today, not just the version you were aiming for.
If your life took an unexpected turn, you’re not behind. You’re human.
And there is still meaning, growth, and worth right here exactly where you are.