02/03/2026
First and foremost, I am tending to my heart. For me, that looked like several days of “do not disturb” on my phone, crawling into a blanket burrrito with my dogs, and sleeping/crying/bingeing tv shows. It looked like crying with my husband and consciously choosing to let this experience bring us closer instead of drive a wedge between us. It looked like unapologetically meeting my needs no matter what, because I deserve that (and so do you).
As the immediate emotional fog is starting to lift, I’m poking around in my brain to notice where there might be limiting beliefs or stories around pregnancy & fertility that I didn’t realize were running in the background (and I’m finding a bunch 👀)
I’m also taking a look at some labwork I had done last year to see what factors I might want to pay attention to, in hindsight. There’s a high probability that the miscarriage was caused by a chromosomal abnormality, but that doesn’t mean I’m not going to do what I can to set myself up for an even better chance of success when I’m ready to try again. I’m planning to repeat some labs to get updated data in a few areas as well.
All along, I’ve continued to uphold the healthy foundations that are second nature to me: protein, fat, and fiber at every meal, mostly warm & cooked foods for easier digestion, mineral mocktails, varied plants on my plate, taking my supplements, moving my body in ways that feel good, etc.
Beyond those basics, I’m prioritizing blood nourishing foods to replenish the resources lost over the last few months while pregnant & through the miscarriage. Lots of red meat, colorful produce, root veggies, mineral rich herbs, and sources of healthy fat
I’m taking a beat to get my feet underneath me before we start to try again. This wasn’t an easy decision, because the wound in my heart was screaming TRY AGAIN ASAP… but my gut was telling me to take a breath and recalibrate.
I’m diving deeper into how I’m navigating this experience in podcast form….on my brand new podcast Rewriting Fertility. The first 3 episodes are LIVE today!
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