11/14/2025
We all need boundaries because they protect and keep us safe from unhealthy people and harmful situations. The holidays are difficult for many of us, so if that’s the case for you, here are some important questions for you to consider BEFORE you say yes to the various holiday requests you face. Once you set the boundaries, the real work happens…..holding on to the boundary. Your family may not like your boundaries and may pressure you or harass you to change your mind. So your ultimate goal is to hold onto the boundary, even in the discomfort you are feeling from your family’s disapproval. When you keep your boundaries, remember to lean into how great that feels!