11/08/2025
Connection saves lives. Sometimes “I’m fine” really means “I don’t know how to talk about it yet.” Every veteran’s experience is unique and so are the ways they may need support. Listening, compassion, and patience go a long way.
How to Show Support:
✔️ Listen without fixing. You don’t need to have answers, just show up and be present.
✔️ Ask open-ended questions. Try: “What’s been helping lately?” or “How are you feeling about things this week?”
✔️ Invite, don’t pressure. Gentle invitations to join routines or social spaces help rebuild trust and connection.
✔️ Be consistent. Showing up, quietly and reliably, is often the greatest comfort.
Different Experiences, Different Needs
Every veteran’s transition and healing journey is shaped by culture, gender, and identity. Recognizing these differences helps us show up with empathy, not assumptions.
Male Veterans: Often taught to equate strength with silence, many men may hesitate to share struggles or emotions. Remind them that vulnerability is not weakness. Opening up and sharing our emotional inner world is courage in action.
Female Veterans: Women in service often face unique challenges, including under-recognition, isolation, or experiences of harassment or trauma. Honor their stories without minimizing them, and help amplify their voices in spaces where they may have felt unseen.
Nonbinary & LGBTQ+ Veterans: Nonbinary and q***r veterans may experience additional layers of stress related to identity, belonging, or discrimination. Creating safe, affirming spaces where they are respected and seen as whole people supports true healing.
You don’t have to understand someone’s exact experience to care deeply.
Empathy, curiosity, and kindness are powerful medicine.