02/10/2026
Some people can love you and still not be safe for your nervous system...
Some connections feel familiar
but keep pulling you back into survival mode,
hyper vigilance, people-pleasing, over giving,
instead of regulation, safety, and expansion.
→ Familiar does not mean aligned.
→ Chemistry does not mean capacity.
→ History does not equal healthy.
And here’s the reframe most people miss:
You don’t need to villainize anyone to step back.
You can love someone and love yourself more.
Boundaries aren’t walls.
They honor you and your nervous system.
If this is something you’re learning to unfold, our therapists at Journey to Present are ready to walk alongside you. journeytopresent.com