11/05/2025
We can have a âlight switchâ in our nervous systemâflipping between over-giving and shutting down, between fawning and fighting.
Both ends are survival. Both are ways the body protects connection and safety.
The work isnât to get rid of either.
Itâs to install a dimmer aka to bring discernment, tracking, and choice into the moment.
This is the somatic practice: learning to sense your own capacity, to feel your bodyâs signals before they spill into reaction.
When we track, we reclaim the space between impulse and response.
We learn to stay connectedâto ourselves and othersâwithout disappearing or exploding.
From light switch to dimmer: this is what embodied boundaries look like.