East Valley Trauma Counseling

East Valley Trauma Counseling Evening appointments available. Locations in Chandler near Chandler Fashion Center and in Gilbert at I'M NOT THE TYPICAL "TALK THERAPIST." We work at your pace.

I make sure my clients always feel safe and in control of their process. Many of my patients tell me how terrified they were before starting counseling; how many of them have held on to memories or feelings of shame and guilt for many years and were afraid to talk about it. Counseling is less about talking or telling others the details of your story, and more about healing the body, mind, and soul. This can often be done with few words, as trauma and anxiety work is largely about feeling safe in the body and calming the nervous system. In trauma work, the past is processed until it no longer feels present in the mind and body. Many of my patients have had great success in healing without ever having to describe or disclose the details of their trauma to me. Trauma therapy should not look like walking into someone's office and having to talk about all the terrible things you've experienced. I start our work together with evidence-based neuropsychological exercises to begin the process of putting your nervous system back into balance, which reduces symptoms of anxiety and distress. I make sure you always know what we are doing and the science behind it. I offer online scheduling through a secure, HIPAA compliant patient portal, so you can find a time and day that works best for you without ever having to wait for a call back. You can use a secure chat via this portal to message me any time in between sessions for non-emergency issues if needed, and I always try to respond within the same day. When selecting a counselor, be sure to ask about ongoing education, training beyond simply "Level 1 and Level 2 EMDR," and years in practice. I have extensive training in trauma work, as well as other areas and modalities. Take the next step toward healing and call to schedule a free 15 minute consult.

12/04/2025

A 20-second hug isn’t just “nice” — it’s a direct intervention on the gut-brain axis. Skin-to-skin contact triggers a surge of oxytocin (often called the “bonding hormone,” though it’s really a neuropeptide with powerful anti-inflammatory effects). Oxytocin tones the vagus nerve, drops cortisol, and shifts the nervous system into parasympathetic. That single physiological shift lowers systemic inflammation and improves gut barrier integrity within minutes. When the gut lining is less “leaky,” beneficial bacteria thrive, microbial diversity increases, and production of anti-inflammatory short-chain fatty acids (SCFAs) and serotonin precursors goes up. The microbiome, in turn, signals safety back to the brain via the vagus and immune pathways, creating a positive feedback loop that measurably reduces anxiety and improves mood resilience. Recent 2024–2025 reviews confirm this bidirectional oxytocin–microbiome relationship: more affectionate touch → higher oxytocin → richer, more resilient microbiome → lower markers of inflammation and anxiety. 
  
In my functional medicine telehealth practice, where I’ve run labs on thousands of people telehealth patients worldwide for the last 15+ years, I see the same pattern over and over: chronic anxiety, IBS, autoimmunity, and dysbiosis almost always coexist with low oxytocin tone and reported loneliness or touch deprivation. So I will prescribe “oxytocin homework” — schedule three 20-second hugs a day (partner, kids, friends, even pets count), or self-hug/weighted blanket if touch is hard right now. I pair it with simple somatic tools (physiological sighs, body scans, breathwork) and, when labs show it’s needed, targeted probiotics or SCFAs or magnesium to support the microbiome side of the loop. Telehealth patients who actually do the hug prescription (I check on follow-ups!) consistently show drops in hs-CRP, improvements in stool diversity markers, and — most importantly — they tell me “I just feel safer in my own skin.” It’s free, zero side effects, and often more powerful than another supplement. Sometimes the most advanced medicine is the oldest one: human connection. 
  
  

12/03/2025

New research using MRI scans shows that one common habit in your baby’s first year can shrink the part of the brain responsible for emotional safety. This area is crucial for trust, attachment, and emotional regulation.

Shockingly, 94% of parents do this habit daily, believing it is helping their child. While screens, sleep training, or formula often get blamed, this hidden behavior quietly affects the brain’s development in ways that may last a lifetime.

The habit involves frequent emotional withdrawal, ignoring a baby’s cries, or failing to respond consistently to distress. Babies rely on caregivers to feel safe. When the brain learns that emotional signals are not met with support, it adapts by reducing growth in the emotional safety circuits.

Experts emphasize that responsive parenting, comforting, acknowledging, and gently interacting with your baby, promotes optimal brain development and long-term emotional health. Even small moments of connection, like holding, talking, or soothing your baby, strengthen these neural pathways.

Understanding this hidden risk allows parents to adjust daily routines and foster a secure, emotionally healthy start for their child.

11/28/2025

Some officers feel calmer on a chaotic shift than they do in their own living room — and the reasons why might surprise you.

See what’s really behind the “better at work than at home” feeling — and what it means for officer wellness:
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You are appreciated!
11/27/2025

You are appreciated!

11/23/2025

Neuroscientists at institutions like Stanford and Harvard have spent years studying the impact of self-talk on brain structure and mental health. What they've found is remarkable: the language we use with ourselves doesn't just reflect our mood, it actually creates it.

The seven most harmful phrases researchers identified include "I'm not good enough," "I always fail," "I can't do this," "Nothing ever works out for me," "I'm so stupid," "Everyone else is better than me," and "I'll never change." When you repeat these phrases, your brain releases cortisol and activates the amygdala, your fear center. Over time, this strengthens neural pathways associated with negativity, making pessimistic thinking your default mode. Brain scans show that people who regularly engage in negative self-talk have increased activity in stress regions and decreased activity in problem-solving areas.

The solution lies in neuroplasticity, your brain's ability to form new connections. Dr. Ethan Kross from the University of Michigan found that people who practiced positive self-talk for just three weeks showed measurable changes in brain activity, with increased activation in regions linked to self-control and emotional regulation. Simple swaps make all the difference: replace "I'm not good enough" with "I'm improving every day," change "I always fail" to "I learn from every experience," and shift "I can't do this" to "I'll find a way to figure this out."

The key is consistency. Just like going to the gym builds muscle, practicing positive self-talk builds stronger, healthier neural pathways. Start by noticing when you use negative phrases, then consciously replace them with empowering alternatives. Your brain will thank you.

Sources: Kross, E. et al. (2014) Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, Creswell, J.D. (2017) Annual Review of Psychology, Davidson, R.J. & McEwen, B.S. (2012) Nature Neuroscience

11/04/2025

Long-Term Melatonin Use Linked to Higher Heart Failure Risk

A major new analysis challenges the assumption that melatonin is risk-free.

Researchers reviewing global health data found that adults using melatonin for more than a year had roughly 90% higher odds of heart failure and were over three times more likely to be hospitalized for it.

The supplement’s long-term use was also tied to nearly double the risk of death.

Experts caution that while this study shows association, not causation, it underscores the need for medical guidance and better regulation of over-the-counter melatonin products.

If you’re the smartest person in the room, you’re in the wrong room.
10/10/2025

If you’re the smartest person in the room, you’re in the wrong room.

Great info at 100 Club First Responder Wellness Conference today (day 2). I really wish more department’s command staff ...
09/25/2025

Great info at 100 Club First Responder Wellness Conference today (day 2). I really wish more department’s command staff attended these. Very proud of Gilbert PD and Fire for their approach to wellness and Phoenix PD for their push to make things better for their people. I’m hopeful that more and more recognize the need to prevent full blown PTSD.

Normalizing suicidal parts of us and learning to identify and work with them is a vital part of working with first respo...
09/10/2025

Normalizing suicidal parts of us and learning to identify and work with them is a vital part of working with first responders.

08/30/2025

Childhood experiences shape more than just our memories, they can have lasting effects on physical and mental health. Research shows that children who are forced into adult roles too early, such as taking care of younger siblings or handling excessive household responsibilities, often carry psychological burdens well into adulthood. These experiences, sometimes referred to as “parentified childhood,” can influence emotional patterns, stress responses, and even long-term health outcomes.

One of the most significant impacts is on how these children relate to rest and self-care. Having grown up feeling responsible for others’ wellbeing, they may struggle with guilt when taking time for themselves. This sense of perpetual responsibility can make it difficult to establish boundaries in adulthood, leaving individuals vulnerable to chronic stress. Over time, persistent stress and emotional strain can dysregulate the immune system, increasing the risk of autoimmune conditions where the body mistakenly attacks its own tissues.

Parentified children often develop heightened empathy, resilience, and adaptability, but these strengths come with hidden costs. The constant need to prioritise others’ needs over their own can lead to burnout, anxiety, and difficulty recognising personal limits. They may also find it challenging to assert themselves in relationships, career settings, and social situations, further perpetuating stress and emotional exhaustion.

Understanding this dynamic is crucial for breaking the cycle. By recognising the signs of early parentification and its long-term consequences, individuals can work toward setting healthy boundaries, practising self-compassion, and managing stress more effectively. Therapy, mindfulness, and structured self-care routines can help retrain the mind to accept rest without guilt and develop healthier coping strategies.

This research highlights the intricate connection between early life experiences, emotional wellbeing, and physical health. It reminds us that childhood responsibilities matter not only for development but also for long-term resilience. Addressing the hidden consequences of early adultification can empower individuals to reclaim balance, protect their health, and cultivate emotional and physical wellbeing throughout life.

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1206 E Warner Road Ste 118
Gilbert, AZ
85296

Opening Hours

Monday 10am - 8pm
Tuesday 10am - 5pm
Wednesday 9am - 6pm
Thursday 10am - 5pm
Friday 9am - 4pm
Saturday 10am - 5pm
Sunday 10am - 5pm

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+14804627728

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Is your therapist up to date with the latest research and training in trauma counseling? Very likely not. I’m a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional with years of extensive training.

I make sure my clients always feel safe and in control of their process. Many of my patients tell me how terrified they were before starting counseling; how many of them have held on to memories or feelings of shame and guilt for many years and were afraid to talk about it. Counseling is less about talking or telling others the details of your story, and more about healing the body, mind, and soul. This can often be done with few words, as trauma and anxiety work is largely about feeling safe in the body and calming the nervous system. In trauma work, the past is processed until it no longer feels present in the mind and body. Many of my patients have had great success in healing without ever having to describe or disclose the details of their trauma to me. We work at your pace. Trauma therapy should not look like walking into someone's office and having to talk about all the terrible things you've experienced. I start our work together with evidence-based neuropsychological exercises to begin the process of putting your nervous system back into balance, which reduces symptoms of anxiety and distress. I make sure you always know what we are doing and the science behind it. I offer online scheduling through a secure, HIPAA compliant patient portal, so you can find a time and day that works best for you without ever having to wait for a call back. You can use a secure chat via this portal to message me any time in between sessions for non-emergency issues if needed, and I always try to respond within the same day. When selecting a counselor, be sure to ask about ongoing education, training beyond simply "Level 1 and Level 2 EMDR," and years in practice. I have extensive training in trauma work, Brainspotting, as well as other areas and modalities. Take the next step toward healing and call to schedule a free 15 minute consult.