01/21/2026
๐ง Letโs Talk About Mental (Emotional) Abuse ๐ง
Mental abuse isnโt always loud. It isnโt always obvious.
Often, it happens quietly, over time โ slowly chipping away at a personโs sense of safety, confidence, and self-worth.
At The Counseling Coalition, we believe that understanding these patterns is an important step toward healing. Here are common forms of mental abuse and what they can look like in everyday life โฌ๏ธ
๐ธ Name-Calling
Using insults or degrading labels (like โstupid,โ โlazy,โ or โloserโ) to shame or control. Even when framed as jokes, repeated name-calling causes real harm.
๐ธ Gaslighting
Manipulating someone into doubting their own memory, feelings, or reality.
Examples include: โThat never happened,โ โYouโre imagining things,โ or โYouโre too sensitive.โ
๐ธ Making Threats
Using fear to gain control โ whether through threats of leaving, punishment, or consequences meant to silence or coerce.
๐ธ Withholding
Intentionally pulling away affection, communication, or emotional connection as a way to punish or gain control.
๐ธ Dismissiveness
Consistently minimizing or brushing off someoneโs needs, emotions, or concerns as unimportant.
๐ธ Constant Criticism
Ongoing judgment that focuses on flaws and mistakes, leaving a person feeling like they can never do anything right.
๐ธ Humiliation
Shaming or embarrassing someone โ privately or publicly โ in ways that reduce confidence and self-worth.
๐ธ Blaming
Twisting situations so the other person is always at fault, even when it isnโt accurate or fair.
๐ธ Silent Treatment
Withdrawing communication or ignoring someone on purpose to punish, control, or create emotional distress.
๐ธ Belittling
Making comments that minimize accomplishments, intelligence, or abilities โ often disguised as โbeing honestโ or โjust trying to help.โ
๐ธ Isolation
Discouraging or preventing connections with friends, family, or support systems to increase dependence.
๐ธ Trivializing
Dismissing emotions by labeling someone as dramatic, overreacting, or making their feelings seem insignificant.
๐ฌ An Important Reminder from Our Team:
Abuse does not have to be physical to be real.
If any of this resonates with you, your experience matters โ and you are not โtoo sensitiveโ for noticing it.
๐ฑ How The Counseling Coalition Can Support You:
We provide a safe, compassionate space to explore experiences like these, rebuild self-trust, and work toward healthier relationships โ without judgment or pressure. Healing happens at your pace, and support looks different for everyone.
If this post sparked awareness or questions for you, we invite you to reach out when youโre ready. You donโt have to carry this alone.
๐ค The Counseling Coalition
Rooted in community. Centered on healing.