03/20/2021
??How can u identify a situation for what it really is? Red Flags/ indicators for Emotional/ Verbal abuse..?? (Narcissistic tendencies)
*Always Neg.
+ Critiquing, insulting, belittling your goals & accusations, yelling, sarcasm
*Control
+ Severely Codependent, isolating you from everyone
+Always Stepping Out (when They leave they know theyre leaving issues unresolved further consuming you while deep in thought)
*DIGITAL SPYING
+ Always monitoring where you are, your browser history
*Manipulation
+Gaslighting
+Switching blame
++ Role reversal (playing victim)
*Lack of/ No Respect
+Destroying your personal belongings (Phone, Tv, Vehicle)
Something are just essential when human relations are in play... You shouldn't have to ask for common decency and compassion. YOU ARE MORE THEN THAT. YOU DIDNT BRING IT ON YOURSELF... Leave some more Red flags in the comments. Never know you might even discover some new ones π