02/04/2026
Somatically Us.
Something is being rewritten—inside me, inside you, and in the space that is Us. Learning to live in the dash with intention. To make safety in our bodies stronger than the currents around us.
My partner and I gathered with 9 other couples from across the U.S. in Phoenix for four days, guided through the four seasons of marriage. An experience we deeply needed.
Somewhere between healing lifelong wounds, ending generational trauma, building a trauma-focused practice, and creating a home for our Somatic Experiencing work… the space to love fully got stranded.
The world pulls us toward disconnection. But my determination to choose joy in connection is stronger.
Being seen has been hard—once, it meant danger. Old survival codes can become dysfunction inside attachment. For both of us, differently and the same.
We were shown how to connect inside pain, and how joy can heal. Humor softens the edges. Love isn’t our demise—love finds the sweet spot where tenderness can return.
I’m deeply grateful to witness healing in real time, within ourselves and collectively. Challenging the codes, together.