04/27/2019
L’DOR V’DOR - From Generation to Generation
By Lynda Bar, Owner/Director
Transition & Advocacy Services LLC
This evening Passover ended and last Sunday was Easter.
These are special times of year that are traditionally celebrated with Family.
These celebrations are usually joyful but it is also a time to remember loved ones and friends who have passed away. It can be a very hard for those who have had recent losses.
The observation of traditions is important and can be a way for us to unify us with our past, present, and future generations, even if seems strange to do so, without them.
A couple of weeks ago my Aunt Shirley passed away. I am so grateful that a couple of weekends ago we were able to spend some quality time with a special visit. Aunt Shirley was always there for me, my whole life.
My Aunt Shirley was the last family member of that generation on both sides of our family.
This year, participating in these family gatherings, I looked around and saw all of our dear children and four of our 6 grandchildren (2 are already in Heaven) and my heart filled with gratitude. “My Cup Runneth Over.”
I also remembered sitting around the table with all of our loved ones who had already passed away and tears came to my eyes. I wanted them to see us, but they were not there.
If your mother and/or father live with you or are in continuum care, this can be especially hard on them as well.
Over the last year, you yourself, may have lost your mother/father/Aunt/Cousin/ or a special friend. The pain may feel too strong to participate in the family tradition. But as as difficult as it may seem, it is important to continue to tell the stories of our dear ones who have passed away to those with whom we are celebrating.
L’dor V’dor. From Generation to Generation.
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