06/21/2025
Let’s talk about something that comes up a lot on the inner journey—the difference between discernment and skepticism.
At first glance, they might seem similar. Both involve a pause, a moment of questioning. But they come from very different places within us.
Discernment is rooted in love and self-trust. It’s that gentle inner knowing that doesn’t need to prove or push anything away. It allows space to feel into what’s aligned for you, without needing to label something good or bad. It doesn’t make others wrong—it just knows what feels right.
For example, maybe someone shares a teaching or idea with you. Discernment might sound like, “Hmm… interesting. That doesn’t quite resonate for me right now, but I honor that it might for them.” No drama. No judgment. Just peace.
Skepticism, on the other hand, often comes from fear. The fear of being tricked, hurt, or made to feel foolish. It tends to show up with defensiveness or dismissal. It says, “Nope. I don’t trust that. Prove it to me. Show me receipts.” It’s trying to stay safe, which is totally human—but it can close us off to some beautiful, expansive experiences if we’re not aware of it.
Like, have you ever had a magical moment or synchronicity and someone immediately brushed it off with a sarcastic, “That’s just coincidence”? That’s skepticism trying to protect itself from vulnerability.
One opens. The other closes.
Neither is “bad,” but when we begin to notice where we’re coming from—love or fear—it makes a huge difference in how we experience the world.
You don’t have to believe everything. You’re not supposed to. But you can listen with an open heart and a strong inner compass. That’s discernment.
And wow, does it feel better.
Love y'all,
- Loriđź©·