02/06/2026
Someone asked me after my last post, “How do you learn to trust your intuition?”
When I read that — I stopped and took a breath, because the honest answer isn’t glamorous, fast, or linear.
It’s lived.
It’s earned through listening… mislistening… doubting… overriding… and finally — returning home to your own inner knowing again and again.
Trusting my intuition didn’t arrive like a lightning bolt. It grew like a muscle. Quietly. Through repetition. Through paying attention to how my body felt when something was aligned — and how it tightened when it wasn’t.
At first, I confused intuition with excitement.
Then I confused it with fear.
Then I confused it with other people’s opinions.
Discernment takes practice.
Your intuition is rarely the loudest voice in the room — but it is the steadiest.
For me, learning to trust it meant slowing down enough to feel my nervous system response. Before Spinal Flow ever became part of my work, before I ever held space for others, I had to learn how to read my own internal signals. Tight chest? That’s a no or a not-yet. Soft breath and grounded belly? That’s a yes or a move-toward.
The body speaks before the mind explains.
There were times I said yes when my inner voice whispered no — and every single time, my body kept the receipt. Not as punishment — as guidance. That’s something I now teach every day in nervous system work: your system is always communicating. Always orienting you toward safety, truth, and alignment.
Intuition is not magic reserved for a chosen few.
It’s a relationship with yourself.
And like any relationship, it deepens with:
Consistency.
Honesty.
Repair.
You build it by checking in:
What do I actually feel here — not what do I think I should feel?
You build it by honoring small nudges — not just dramatic signs.
You build it by letting yourself be wrong without making yourself broken.
Some of my best business decisions at SOS didn’t come from spreadsheets or trends — they came from a quiet inner nudge that said, this is the next right step. Spinal Flow. Energy work. PEMF and red light offerings. Products that carry intention instead of just ingredients. None of it followed a traditional mold — but it followed truth.
And truth has a frequency you can feel.
People sometimes think intuition should feel dramatic or mystical — but most often it feels simple. Clean. Grounded. Like a steady internal yes that doesn’t need to shout.
Fear feels urgent.
Intuition feels anchored.
Fear says: decide now or else.
Intuition says: this way — when you’re ready.
The more you regulate your nervous system, the clearer your intuition becomes. When the body feels safer, the signal comes through with less distortion. That’s why practices that support regulation — breath, stillness, Spinal Flow, sound, PEMF, time in nature — they don’t create intuition. They remove the static so you can hear it.
You don’t learn intuition by trying harder.
You learn it by listening softer.
And most importantly — by acting on what you hear.
Start small.
Low-risk decisions.
Follow the nudge.
Track the outcome.
Build evidence with yourself.
Self-trust is built through kept promises — especially the quiet ones no one else sees.
Your intuition is not trying to make you perfect.
It’s trying to make you aligned.
And alignment will take you further than any mold ever could.
Trust the whisper.
Trust the body.
Trust the unfolding.
The Universe speaks — but it often uses your own inner voice to do it. 🫶