11/06/2025
I'm not sure how old I was when I discovered that other families weren't like mine. That my classmates hadn't needed to develop the skill of sensing the energy in the house when they got home from school in order to know if they needed to start cleaning right away, do their homework immediately, hide in their rooms, or if it was safe to play. One day I noticed that my friend didn't seem upset or scared or worried when her dad started yelling about something in the next room. I noticed that I spent as much time as possible at her house instead of my own. I remember asking her if her parents were always like this, or if they acted differently when other people were there, like mine did. It was a huge surprise to me that other kids weren't walking on eggshells too. They didn't go to school with bruises that made it hard to sit in class, or with handprints on their faces. They weren't terrified of doing something wrong or saying the wrong thing, with the wrong tone or with the wrong look on their faces. They didn't desperately love a monster* that they could never please no matter how much they wanted to, or how hard they tried. And oh, how hard I tried! I became an expert at figuring out how to read people so that I could be useful. So that I could be safe. Except I wasn't safe.* And I could never earn the love I sought.*
I decided when I grew up I wanted to help kids like me. Kids with families they couldn't trust to protect them. With feelings so enormous that it was inconceivable that anyone would survive the full expression of them. With wounds so deep that it felt like they'd never heal. Kids who'd grown up and built better lives, but still carried the scars. I knew I was destined for it, I just didn't yet know how.
Fast forward several decades, multiple learning experiences (and some amazing tales) and a metric f**k-ton of healing and inner work, (for myself and for my ancestral line) and I know without a doubt that it's my Soul Contract to have lived the life I've lived so that I could hold the space I hold to witness your tender inner kid and help you along your journey to greater wholeness. It's my honor to do so.🙏 Using Breath, Sound, and Energy, we'll work together to remember our Light. Booking now. Are you ready?🌬🔥
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