Sober Social

Sober Social A place to find community with others who have been set free, or are striving to be free, from addiction in a clean & sober space.

Meeting the 2nd Friday of each month at 6:00p for a meal, games, conversation (always available), and a devotion. * Meeting every 2nd Friday of the month from 6:00-8:00PM
* FREE meal served at each gathering
* Basketball, corn hole, cards and board games available
* Short time of devotion

Please share this information as we head into frigid temps!
01/22/2026

Please share this information as we head into frigid temps!

Looking forward to another great evening with everyone on February 13th!
01/16/2026

Looking forward to another great evening with everyone on February 13th!

Yesterday’s choices may influence today’s reality, but they don’t need to limit tomorrow’s possibilities.
01/06/2026

Yesterday’s choices may influence today’s reality, but they don’t need to limit tomorrow’s possibilities.

Judas betraying Jesus was necessary.

And that sentence alone makes people uncomfortable, because it feels like we’re saying God needed a villain. Like Judas was born, handed a black cape, and told, “Congratulations, you’re the bad guy. Please proceed to ruin everything.”

But that’s not how this works.
Not even close.

Judas was not forced. He wasn’t mind-controlled. He wasn’t pushed off a moral cliff by God so the story could move forward. Judas made a choice. A real one. And that choice reshaped everything.

That’s the part we don’t like sitting with.

Judas walked with Jesus. Ate with Him. Heard the same teachings as the other disciples. Watched the blind see and the dead walk out of tombs like it was just another day. He wasn’t lacking information. He was close enough to touch the miracles. And yet, somewhere along the way, his heart drifted.

Because Judas wanted a Messiah on his terms.

A fixer. A conqueror. A visible, immediate solution.

And when Jesus didn’t become that fast enough, or loud enough, or powerful in the way Judas expected, disappointment quietly turned into control. And control, left unchecked, has a way of turning into betrayal.

That’s usually how it happens, by the way.

Not with a dramatic speech. Not with villain music playing in the background. But with a slow internal shift where we decide we know better than God how things should unfold.

What makes this even harder is that Jesus knew. He knew Judas would betray Him. He said it plainly. And still, He washed Judas’ feet. Still passed him bread. Still called him friend. Jesus didn’t withdraw love because He knew the ending. He didn’t humiliate Judas or expose him early. Love stayed love all the way to the cross.

Here’s where our brains start doing that loading-wheel thing.

God knew Judas would choose betrayal.
God used that betrayal to bring salvation.
But God did not cause the betrayal.

The cross required betrayal, yes.
But betrayal was not commanded. It was permitted.

God’s sovereignty doesn’t mean He forces every move like a puppeteer. It means He is so unshakeable that even freely chosen sin doesn’t derail His plan. He doesn’t author evil. He outmaneuvers it. He doesn’t panic when humans choose wrong. He builds redemption right through it.

And this is where the plot twist comes in.
God is the master of plot twists no one sees coming.

The cross was supposed to be the end. A public ex*****on. A failure. A full stop. Instead, it became the doorway to resurrection. The worst moment in human history turned into the greatest rescue mission imaginable.

Judas’ failure didn’t break God’s plan.
It revealed how unbreakable it was.
And if we’re being honest, this is where it gets painfully relatable.

We know failure. We know the sick feeling of realizing we chose wrong. Said the thing. Did the thing. Didn’t trust when we should have. Took control instead of surrendering. And somewhere deep down we assume that was it. The moment we disqualified ourselves from anything good coming next.

But Scripture keeps telling a different story.

God takes failures and turns them into things we never could have imagined. He takes what looks like an ending and writes a chapter no one saw coming. He takes broken decisions and somehow, without calling them good, weaves them into something redemptive.

Not because failure is holy.
But because God is.

Judas chose betrayal.
Jesus chose obedience.
And God chose resurrection.

And maybe the comfort here isn’t that our choices don’t matter. They do. Deeply. But that God is not sitting in heaven wringing His hands over our worst moments. He is still working. Still redeeming. Still capable of turning even the most catastrophic mess into a story that ends in life.

God doesn’t waste failure.
He rewrites it.
And His plot twists are always better than the story we thought we were ruining.

It’s always so much fun to get together. Anybody up for a game of cribbage? Maybe Skipbo or Uno? 🙋🏼‍♀️🙋🏽‍♂️ See you ther...
01/06/2026

It’s always so much fun to get together. Anybody up for a game of cribbage? Maybe Skipbo or Uno? 🙋🏼‍♀️🙋🏽‍♂️ See you there!

One week and already getting our meal lined up. Soup’s on! Happy New Year to everyone and we will see you soon!
01/02/2026

One week and already getting our meal lined up. Soup’s on! Happy New Year to everyone and we will see you soon!

Ok, FINE! So there’s no snow left, but it’s Wisconsin and pretty much anything can happen by the 9th. ⛄️ Hope to see you...
12/26/2025

Ok, FINE! So there’s no snow left, but it’s Wisconsin and pretty much anything can happen by the 9th. ⛄️ Hope to see you there. 🙌🏼 Come check out the remodeling of the gym and stay for dinner.

If you’re not planning anything for Christmas, get yourself to a Christmas Eve  service!  There are lots of great church...
12/24/2025

If you’re not planning anything for Christmas, get yourself to a Christmas Eve service! There are lots of great churches. Poplar Creek/New Berlin has services at 2:00 and 4:00!

Looking forward to celebrating another year, month, day, or even hour of sobriety with you! You are worth the effort. St...
12/19/2025

Looking forward to celebrating another year, month, day, or even hour of sobriety with you! You are worth the effort. Stay strong and see you soon.

We are so excited to celebrate Christmas with you, but the registration window is closing soon! Please sign up with your...
12/05/2025

We are so excited to celebrate Christmas with you, but the registration window is closing soon! Please sign up with your support group, online at poplar creek.org/events, or in a message here. I’ll be finalizing the order early next week. 😋

Well folks, it’s that time again! 🍝 🎄 🎶 Time to REGISTER for the Christmas Dinner at Sober Social. 🍝 🎄 🎶 Scroll down or ...
11/28/2025

Well folks, it’s that time again!
🍝 🎄 🎶 Time to REGISTER for the Christmas Dinner at Sober Social. 🍝 🎄 🎶 Scroll down or go to poplarcreek.org/events for more info. Hope to see you there!

11/27/2025

Giving Thanks for our Sober Social family today. 🙏🏼 for a healthy, safe, day of giving thanks to God for all he HAS done, IS doing, and WILL do. Jesus, the same yesterday, today, forever!

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