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14/01/2023
Sooooooo this whole time I was really hitting on either a stranger or nobody else but myself 🤣🤣🤣 You know what’s not fun...
01/12/2022

Sooooooo this whole time I was really hitting on either a stranger or nobody else but myself 🤣🤣🤣 You know what’s not funny ? Going from a situation in which you don’t know what the hell is going to frustration not knowing to go through books websites newspaper to podcast to YouTube videos to meeting a sweet man 1night to going back to so much more !!!!! THAT IS NOT SO NOT FUNNY
I loved myself for being an owl and it served me most of the time 98% but in this situation NADA so I’m laying off the guessing ; don’t have a choice because it’s so freaking exhausting !!!! Completely made a fool of myself 🤣 and ohhh boy some people must have not be happy or confused. This one was the best though 🤣🤣🤣 I laughed my ass off

I mean I just don’t know why the incident with Techbridge( we did technology right ) and so I assumed sweet man ( because We had a great night talking and seemed sooo sweet plus something was there ..cutest smile ever though)
Those teacher must have thought I went crazy 😂😂😂 People need to get warned when they get secluded from the world and the internet man !!!!! That is causes anxiety and depression 😂😂 Even worst is you go out, everyone is looking at , it doesn’t take an idiot to know something is going !!! This one though couldn’t stop laughing 2days 🤣🤣🤣

Good morning Facebook Family 🎉 I know whoever lives on this page accepts me for who I am , knows that there are good and...
01/12/2022

Good morning Facebook Family 🎉 I know whoever lives on this page accepts me for who I am , knows that there are good and bad days and I love you all ❤️
I haven’t been on this page for some days, let’s just say November has been challenging but nothing I couldn’t handle ! I’m still standing so thank you all, slowly but surely we will get there 🎉🎉
Have a wonderful day ❤️

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Good morning and Happy Tuesday Facebook Family. Hope everyone has a fabulous day 🥰
29/11/2022

Good morning and Happy Tuesday Facebook Family. Hope everyone has a fabulous day 🥰

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21/11/2022

Hi Facebook Family,

Warning: this message is going to be pretty RAW but it’s something I feel like I must do or at least that my heart tells me I should do.
Today is my birthday, turned 42 and I’m grateful to see another year but is this how I wish I celebrated this day ? NO

I have always been a social butterfly, the one that brings people together, the light in the group and it’s a life I miss and that I crave.
The last couple days have been about evaluating my life and wondering what happened, how did I get here …It started out with the rejection from the program, perhaps it took a while for me to realize it but I will admit that I have arrived 3months prior, it was an unexpected move but at the time , I felt I had no other choice , I also knew I came without working on myself or the trauma I have experienced. When I encountered the Rejection, it took me back to that space in which I didn’t work on leading me to see anything/anyone as a threat. I have just experienced the most humiliating 4years of my life in which everyone I thought accepted me didn’t and when it comes from very close people, it chocks and it’s painful.
What I didn’t know was that , that
Rejection was a blessing in disguise’s when I received the phone call that would forever change my path. A call from a men, whom, I felt was a treat and saw no reason to talk to because everyone I knew left me picking up whatever that was left of my life.. Probably not the best first impression lol, he would probably say I was really mean which I will admit I was 🙊 unintentionally ! Honestly I don’t think he was prepared himself for that awkward encounter where I unleashed myself onto him projecting my anger of what other people did😂 It’s funny but not in a mean way, I’m just trying to picture his face that day bc I went full on.. Long story short, this unhealed trauma has created a séries of not so pleasant moments for all of us, I know the person that I am would have never behaved this way but it makes me feel awful knowing that I have been caught up in this negativity that others caused. I couldn’t have controlled the consequences bc the darkness of it outweigh more and all I can do is apologize now that I’m aware..
I know you have tried really hard to encourage, support but in my defense, not making an excuse, I simply didn’t know if it was support or not being that I have never been cheered on in that sense. Having a chain of people doing whatever it takes to cheer me on isn’t something I know, believe it or not . Most people around me have always tried to diminish the light in me…Another aha moment for you all , I never knew I had that light which explains why.. I’m not trying to make it about ME, this is really meant to be an apology letter/message to all of you starting with the ONE that has brought us together. I have never been one to care about expressing myself openly ( explains why I’m part of the misfits lol) and this is the only place I know I can get creative to send my apologies.
I AM SORRY FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART and my wish is that we can find a way to turn this around and give me a chance to be the person, the light I know I am.
I have never been one to say I know it all and in this situation I really don’t know how, I have always been an in-person kinda of girl… Connection is my Strength but not so much through technology so I’m asking for an olive branch. I have genuinely grown to adopt and Love each and one of you, hopefully you see that.
To the man on the phone lol, I’m sorry but I would also add that despite the challenges, it hasn’t changed what I think of if not more.

I know it’s the holidays season and because I’m straightforward, I want to add that I don’t anyone feeling that it’s coming out of a place of loneliness because it’s not.
I respect everyone’s position and whatever that is meant to be will be but I truly needed to get this off my chest . Credit needs to be given when it’s due, and if there’s one thing I hate knowing is that I hurt someone else’s feelings.

Cheers

15/11/2022

Happy Tuesday Facebook Family and my wish is that your Tuesday morning start off the right way and if NOT, everything is figouretable! Take inspiration from this guy here 🤣🤣

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09/11/2022

Checking in to say goodnight Facebook family,

I have been on this journey of establishing a routine with a clock and everything else but oh boy 😅 I’m not quite there …
The kids are being super super frustrated, go figure why then this afternoon my daughter gave me the worry of my life but She is her mama’s daughter !
She is Strong, She is Fierce and She is definitely Bold 😍
She is a Strong-willed child like her mama and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with it because without us , where would be the world today ?! GIRL POWER all day

Tomorrow is a new day
Hopefully I will be a little bit more consistent in my routine but I promise to get on camera , be the chatter box I am ❤️

Love you guys
Thank you for thé support…❤️

08/11/2022

Create a special website called Welcome to America for African people - celebrity want to be, that way we know how to proceed 😅
Add a step by step instructions
And do NOT forget a community in which we can post questions 24/7 when we feel anxious about the next step

Anything urgent , put in the mailbox that way we will know it’s meant for us.

It’s funny how one thinks they are alone, no friends yet there’s a whole world out there sitting waiting until they are about to fall of their chairs bc they’re desperate for you to realize it . All these books, I didn’t know, I got them bc « they resonated with me » not knowing you knew my story.
Im in my own little bubble trying to figure out life with the kids, it felt like a transformation because going to college in the US 20years ago, get married then divorced to finally come back as a single mom with 3 little ones is absolutely a new beginning. It felt like I had to re-learn every thing including attempting to set up a new foundation for them but after the incident, my only focus was to get through custody and go back…Then trouble with landlord started and it got super overwhelming; I didn’t know who to ask questions if not google😅 Made it worst bc that’s when I discovered I’m listened to not knowing why… I’m a very laid back person who doesn’t take her problems outside, it became a habit bc I never had any help… While people made a fuss about the divorce, I could care less bc my priority were my children.
When I didn’t get the job offer, not considered, it broke me into pieces and I felt threatened bc while I was taking the program, he was threatening to take the kids away . He told them he would take them and leave me here. Here it was that I traveled this far to protect my children, and not having a job to prove to the courts I could take care of them was another threat I wasn’t prepared for.

It’s never been about my past nor my ex, it’s always been about how will you prove your finances. My father helped me but I knew I needed a job and all I cared about was to find a solution. I have watched mothers cry, children get snatched away from their mothers because men had the power to do it in Niger. It made me sick to my stomach and I couldn’t picture myself go through that .
It has become the new norm in Niger without anyone interfering, men enjoyed it because they knew how much it could hurt a women.
A woman should never have to feel threatened to get her child taken away by an ex husband just to satisfy his Ego, he comes from a woman.
God tells men She is your mother, She is your sister, She is your daughter so treat her well because it’s not just your wife. It’s your son’s wife, your grandson’s wife, it’s a blueprint you are leaving behind.

A man does NOT look into another man’s eyes and threatens to take his grandchildren away just because they don’t fit « his religious standards » because what you do doesn’t define the present instead it’s a lifetime.
Children are a blessing from God but they are also our trials and tribulations.
The moment he opened his mouth and said my children would never grow up with me , the next day I asked for a divorce. This man didn’t NOT challenge ME instead he challenged God because he was already wrong for imposing himself instead of compromising as a spouse.
So no Facebook family, my divorce, my ex has never ever been my issue not my drama since 4years ago once I turned my back.

How to be Unfackable part 2
04/11/2022

How to be Unfackable part 2

04/11/2022

Crafting s**t !!! She has her friends cheering her on and that’s when I realized this is the reason I have been getting all these hate emails etc on leadership !!! I’m such an introvert in my own little bubble I didn’t know why so much noise on this ..Why RC blakes criticized my clothing, how a lady acts.. Because they want to run for president or government right ? My Tv and every electronic in my house has been hacked into , pages of internet I go on because there’s a tracker ! How I know ? I have been on so many pages to do my research, my memory is like a camera ! I notice the changes even on the Muslim website I go, the wording of some sentences etc are tailored for ME !!!! On Facebook, my pages have been separated which explains why I couldn’t understand why the invités I sent to my friends, nobody was part of my friends !
Again they thought being slick !!!! They put couple of my friends profile in my business page but it’s pictures only…My business page has nobody I know and when I make post nobody comments ! I have been manipulated by them controlling my phone, computer and everything else ! When I realized this last night , I thought to myself Thank you Allah for making this public , I couldn’t understand why this world listens in and out of my house but Allah always has a bigger plan ! Not to say I didn’t trust and have Faith in His plan but I didn’t know that no matter what His plans are , this note app is my access to this world and I can write without anyone being able to control it because Muslim Christian are on it and this today reveals the devil plans !!!! Since I started writing , emails , calls won’t stop to distract me so I stop writing !!! All these fake emails from Coaches, big celebrities such as Tracy Lit, Peter Sage, Martha Beck and so many others have been sent to me, emails with webinars for me to follow through the formula on coaching to make it look like the real ones so I get excited . This is why Faith in God and your intuition is so important because with the pressure, they exhausted me because I was really genuinely trying to learn. But Light always prevails because the pressure of selling etc never felt right and that was one thing I didn’t insist on bc God is my voice and this is the reason why Strong-willed child are actually not stubborn, not hard headed instead they are servants of God ! You can’t make them do it anything YOU want especially when it’s wrong and goes against God’s commands ! You can’t cheat God not with Fame, not Social Status and certainly not with Money ! God chooses the quiet ones , the not so flashy ones because they follow His voice and nothing but His Voice !!!

Allah is Al-Hakeem, The Wise One and Know that He is the One & Only One who has control over us 🙌 Allah is One God, He loves everyone and it doesn’t matter what religion because guess what ? Mankind came up with that confusion ! Whether it’s Jesus or Mohammed, they were all born from God right ? They are dead right ? So what makes anyone think that God said we are different ? What makes you think that God wants us to fight over color, race , religion when He created us ? All He wants is for us to respect each other regardless of our race and color ! Mankind brings so much confusion into the mind not realizing he is the cause of his own pain and if simply he searched for the truth , the knowledge, we wouldn’t be caught up in this s**t ! We all just want to feed our children, put them in school, teach them right from wrong so they grow up to be good citizens models and not bully each other like what’s happening today ! Women are the reason why anyone exist today , we carry you in our wombs , we give birth / raise you / clean your asses / educate you / and if the same child is an addict or whatever, the mother is always the one sacrificing ! Take him to jail/ sit with him / reassure him yet we get no respect ! We are taken advantage of , manipulated, humiliated and for what reasons exactly ???? We live for our children, our families and NOT even for ourselves !!! Why ?? Please tell me why ? A woman , she is your mother, she is your sister, she is your daughter all in One ! Whatever you do to a woman even if she is related to you , it will come back to you because you have either a mother, sister or daughter ! It’s a circle, didn’t you notice ? You can’t escape it and that’s why God reminds men to follow His Commands because your marriage , just like Purpose, is your blueprint in Life ! It’s a generational cycle , it’s not just your wife , it’s your son’s & grandson’s wife that you mistreat causing trauma after trauma ! Because of Ego and Pride ? Money and Fame ? Is it worth all this pain that you cause on us ? Can you imagine a world without women? Just take a minute, close your eyes and picture ..A bunch of men ? What would that be like ?
Women don’t hurt men , they don’t even try, all they want is actually to be the best for their families ! God wired us that way and that’s why « the cord » is tied to the baby from the womb ! We make this world , we make this universe and all we want is acknowledgment ! To be seen, To be heard and To be valued !

04/11/2022

How does one become UNF**KABLE like Marie Forleo says :

Number 1 : Master your intuition, Master your sense of awareness like a fu***ng genius that the slightest detail that keeps coming back to you will just be stamped in your mind . Go over again and again but make sure to not look too much back to back for days because then your brain will get annoyed with you lol.

You can’t master your sense of awareness unless you are connecting with God, He has to be the center of everything that you do . He becomes your guide.

So where am I going with this ? I’m about to tell you and it’s going to blow your mind off ..So here we go
It’s been couple months that I have been exchanging with a longtime friend of mine who lives in Canada, he was actually my 1st boyfriend who treated me like a princess actually. He was caring, thoughtful and everything else that you could imagine. We don’t talk often but when we do, we catch up, laugh and voila ! Recently, we spoke and after we finished, he sent me a video to watch on messenger so I checked it out. Once done, I go back to write to him and that’s when I noticed he had 2 profiles of messenger. It was confusing because we can only have one I thought..I checked it out but being the tired mama that I am, I let it be but come back to you from time to time..
Now I sent him a message after the video and he replied « Nafissatou » my whole name. So I went in the other profile to see why they are different, the conversations were different ! I wondered how did he do that ?! Not long ago, he called him saying he was taking his girlfriend to Vegas to watch the May weather fight but before that , they would stop by San Francisco ! I thought it was nice..He said he had a suprise for his girlfriend so obviously I was happy for them…
Later he calls me back, and he starts explaining to me how he got arrested in front of his child, worst humiliation ever..He continues to tell me whenever he dropped off his son to « his rich friends « all they cared about for him to pick up his son, at school they made fun..Naturally I told him to change schools if it’s because of the divorce with his wife. He claimed they were getting divorced and she had a bunch of girlfriends, taking all his money and Court won’t end…At least that’s the story he gave me..I told him don’t worry about her..if it’s that bad, change schools so you don’t have to see them. He told me he has to go see a therapist that cost him $125 and I wondered why ..His reply, that’s how it is…I empowerEd him to trust in God and do what’s right … He then proceeded to talk about funeral etc…and how he thought he knew me but didn’t…Asking me to remind him if I went to college and where..I was a bit suprised laughing like you know where I went, you forgot ? He said yes !
Long story short he called yesterday and the day before, I answered yesterday. I asked him about his trip but he proceeded to talk about his court case with his wife and how he is close to $20,000 spending on the lawyers and I asked why. He said he doesn’t know why it’s taking so long but that he is sure she is going to win, she got some new girlfriend cheering her on, people talk about her and she dresses sexy yet these people don’t care.
Now I never understand why he always brought up the wife, I thought he was going through a divorce so I wanted to be there as a friend.

He tells me that all he asked her was to get a partime job , he has 2 rental properties and he does IT , whatever she wants they can do later! I asked what kind of friend she had. He said an empowerment group, all they do is cheer her on and in this country women have power ! They are gonna give her some money they saved up for her ! I asked why don’t you just move on if you say you love your girlfriend and she is good to you ..He proceeded to say I don’t understand how I just pushed her a little then I find myself in this situation… All I wanted was for her to dress nice , she refused but now she is getting all the attention !

My big aha moment ??? This story sounds a little bit familiar, and made sense with some details that I have been wondering about for months now !!!! I proceeded to tell him maybe there’s a misunderstanding..I questioned him on purpose because I wanted to confirm . You know who it is ???? Daniel from Techbrige !!! This man told me he has access to « his wife email « and he reads all the emails and messages she receive from her « little girlfriends « which at the point he sounded like narcissistic because right after that I mentioned an example with my ex husband and he defended him saying « no he isn’t one don’t say that »
That was not normal !!!!
He said he had to go back to his meetings! Once I hang up , I check the profile again and it all started to sink in because for months my phone has been acting and I knew someone hacked into it but couldn’t tell how because so many times I reset to defaults but this man has been smart enough to follow me on Pinterest, Facebook to check the pages/ app I follow so he started to create apps of mindset he knew I would download and because I don’t have money, many didn’t cost anything or just $2-4 !!!! He was at Techbridge, IT that’s his expertise and so even in my emails , I have a bunch of emails from coaches I followed except that a lot of them , the fonts I noticed didn’t look write! Everything Coaching related and now I also realize they have tainted my name because I couldn’t understand why so many IRS emails or some weird emails ! Because I’m not American, I would open !
Then I also receive emails about nominating techbridge for awards and just recently I received an invite for an open house to go over resume ! My LinkedIn profile also has been hacked !

I always wondered after the incident at Techbridge, how this man on YouTube RC Blakes appeared on my screen one day and talked about God blocked it .. He mentioned single moms with young children, employer thought they got ride of me , my landlord taking my money , God blocked it ! Stupid , Naive me I thought omg God is saving me without me knowing ! It sounded too sketchy but later I went back to listen again and I wondered how did he know .. Then the serie of lectures on men , finding the right man …Then it lead me to wonder how just one day I discovered some tarot readers on YouTube ! I never knew about it but the title sounded familiar and by curiosity I clicked.. It sounded like my divorce but yet I thought it can’t be !!!! Couple days later I go back and that’s when I realized it’s my divorce story and everything unfolding ! I asked how people could have access to your documents in your computer, I was told through google and stupid me always signed in with my Apple ID !!! These people turned my divorce into a story but the weirdest part was the fact that they mentioned the incident with Techbridge, I couldn’t understand how they knew !!!! I didn’t watch it every day but it bugged my mind so I would go back and listen , then once it was mentioned he called me, I checked him without him realizing I cought his lies …I didn’t understand until another time they said he was in jail by trying to do the right thing but he realized he was in love with him …I was completely confused about the jail! I would go on LinkedIn to see if anything mentioned but there was nothing…I would go on about my business but time to time I would wonder how these people know about my life day in day out , trashing talk my family and my divorce, witchcraft etc…RC Blake’s title continued to intrigue me and last night when I realized it was Daniel , I remembered his LinkedIn profile said God’s ambassador !

Not long ago I received an invite to attend an invite on zoom by RC Blakes , for some reason I attended but to my suprise it was a couple things yet the title said for the women that love their men.. I thought it was a mistake so I logged off !

Techbridge, RC Blakes , Realty Property Consulting Management which is the owner of the house I’m renting all ganged up on me ! RC Blakes in that video said don’t tell anyone yet, God’s angel are working for you ! Lie, this property has charged me over $3000 in the course of how many months ! They gaslight renter’s because they are foreigners and they thought I was one of the uneducated ones once I started to notice fees on my account ! They show up to your house every 3months with or without your authorization to take pictures , claiming to maintain it but it’s actually to use it against you ! You can’t call for work orders instead they ask you to put it in the system so that they change it whenever they want ! I had mice in this house , toilet issues and once the plumber came he told me the foundation needed to be fixed and he would get a quote ! Every time something happens, I send an email to the assistant manager and in this case I told her and she confirmed that the plumber did tell her . She said it was a big job that would cost ..long story short almost a week we couldn’t shower in the tub , once I called her she came up with the excuses it was tissues and not the foundation ! They charged my account $1500 and it was up to me to pay ! Who could prove otherwise ? The plumber was in it with them, and they knew I had no way out ! They tried to gaslight me claiming it’s tissue etc.. One day the assistant manager sends me an email saying she was thinking about me , the bill and she knows the City of Greensboro helps renters with rent so I should add this ledger she is sending me and send it to them ! I thought there no free money in America , why would she « think about me » plus that’s not rent money, this is the plumbing issue they put on my account ! I called her and said I paid my rent but what you are asking me is to send your bill , so I paid you rent then you get this money sent to you as well ?! I told her I don’t think it’s right..she proceeded to say it’s still part of rent..My reply was if you insist I will but if it doesn’t cover this bill under my name, you will take care of this f*cking bill of yours because it’s not mine and it’s unfair ! I go online in my account, the balance is close to $4000 , they doubled tripled the numbers !!! It showed I owed all the previous months, late fees etc and I couldn’t understand what just happened ! My rent comes out from my online banking and I know I pay every month so how can you have that showing !
I call the office and the assistant manager tells me « it’s a glitch « what kind of damn glitch that changes amount…She says not to worry, she will check it but to go ahead and make my rent payment !
Turns out these people took out rent money I was paying to pay down the balance which meant I always had a balance ! Couple weeks ago I called the manager because now the assistant manager knew that they were in deep s**t so she quit ! The manager Elizabeth gets all freaked out on me screaming yelling that I paid for it anyway, the plumbing ! I said no I haven’t ! You deduct from my rent money because you thought I’m black, uneducated and won’t notice all the bulls**t you are adding to my account ! I’m a single mom struggling to care and do the right thing and all you do is take advantage !!!! You have a high rate of employee turnover because they know you steal money from the poor and the ones struggling but because they are scared, nobody says anything like one of the maintenance guy told me ! That the owner is powerful and has properties here and Charlotte ! It’s still not an excuse, you take money from renters then get extra from Covid asking us to file for it ! Wherever we go, we are looked down at as black single mothers ! You paint a bad image of us and that s**t catches up to you !!!!

Now RC blakes got his show, why because they thought I would go along with this soulmate love story with Daniel because when he was acting like « my friend » he said I don’t know why my wife doesn’t want to work for the government « she says she wants to do her crafting s**t !!!

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