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Tonight was a reminder that community is built in circles, not spotlights.Grateful to the Furman DLI teams and Neighbors...
02/20/2026

Tonight was a reminder that community is built in circles, not spotlights.

Grateful to the Furman DLI teams and Neighbors Voice for creating space for real conversation. We sat at roundtables and shared stories about our families, our roots, and how art has shaped our lives. No performances. Just people listening deeply.

I met some new friends and heard stories that shifted me in the best way.

In a world that moves fast and talks loud, slowing down to truly listen feels like quiet resistance.

Appreciate everyone who showed up and shared. We heal together. đź’ś

School-based mental health is not one program. It is a system.A new nonpartisan Congressional Research Service (CRS) bri...
02/16/2026

School-based mental health is not one program. It is a system.

A new nonpartisan Congressional Research Service (CRS) brief breaks SBMH down into what leaders actually need:

đź§  A continuum (promotion, prevention, treatment)
đź§  A tiered structure (MTSS)
đź§  The reminder we all need: implementation quality matters

If we want better outcomes, we cannot rely on random “programs-of-the-year.". We need a consistent playbook: clear tiers, clear roles, and a clear pathway to care.

What to change in supervision, routines, and referral practices this week:

-Define Tier 1, Tier 2, and Tier 3 supports in plain language
-Clarify who refers, who follows up, and how handoffs work with community partners
-Add a simple rhythm: Training + coaching + quick check-ins on what is actually happening

Save this for your next MTSS meeting.

Source: Congressional Research Service. (2025, November 28). School-based mental health: Introduction and considerations for Congress (R48740).

We are debating whether 4-year-olds should be suspended from school.South Carolina currently leads the nation in prescho...
02/13/2026

We are debating whether 4-year-olds should be suspended from school.

South Carolina currently leads the nation in preschool suspensions. House Bill 4068 would limit suspension to serious safety risks after other interventions are tried and require trauma-informed practices, training, and transparency.

Exclusion is not instruction.

Watch my TEDx talk on trauma-informed care and the school-to-prison pipeline. Then read the bill. Then ask yourself what we truly believe about children and belonging.

Psychological safety must start before kindergarten.

Call your legislator. Advocate for funding. Support teachers. Protect kids

This is one of those posts that sits in your drafts for a minute.You feel the heat around it. You know people are going ...
02/12/2026

This is one of those posts that sits in your drafts for a minute.

You feel the heat around it. You know people are going to read it through their political lens. And you ask yourself, “Is this worth it?”

Here’s where I landed.

Immigration is debated in policy rooms.

But what happens to children when families live in fear is not a debate. It is a mental health reality.

When a child is sitting in algebra wondering if their parent will be detained…

🧠 When a student hears rumors about ICE raids in their neighborhood…
🧠 When a classroom feels like a waiting room for bad news…
đź§  The brain does not shift into learning mode. It shifts into survival mode.

In neuroscience terms, chronic fear activates the stress response system. Cortisol rises. The amygdala, the brain’s alarm center, goes on high alert. The prefrontal cortex, the part responsible for focus, planning, and reasoning, goes offline.

We cannot ask children to solve for X while their nervous system is solving for safety.

This is not a partisan statement.

This is a developmental statement.

Trauma research reminds us that persistent threat disrupts attachment, concentration, and identity development. Schools become environments of hypervigilance instead of growth.

And here is the truth:

When children are worried about the detainment of their neighbors, parents, classmates, or themselves, learning becomes biologically secondary.

That is not ideology. That is physiology.

As a trauma-informed clinician and educator, I almost did not share this because the conversation is visceral right now. But silence does not protect children’s nervous systems.

If our mission is mental health, belonging, and psychological safety, then we have to be honest about the environments that shape those outcomes.

Mental health does not exist outside of context.

And context matters.

-TJ

News update: Liam Ramos returned to Minnesota after a judge ordered his release. Hundreds of children are still detained in Dilley, TX, including a second gr...

02/11/2026

When children show up at school hungry, exhausted, or distracted by trouble at home, staff at certain Philadelphia schools are trained to give them special attention and offer them a calm space.

This year’s Stress in America report confirms what so many nervous systems already know:Stress in the U.S. is not just a...
02/11/2026

This year’s Stress in America report confirms what so many nervous systems already know:

Stress in the U.S. is not just about workload, politics, or money.
It is about disconnection.

More than half of adults report loneliness.
Nearly 7 in 10 say they needed more emotional support than they received.
And the people carrying the most stress are often still “functioning.”

Trauma-informed care reminds us that connection is not optional. It is medicine.

We heal together đź’ś

Read the full report: https://www.apa.org/pubs/reports/stress-in-america/2025

02/10/2026

Sound familiar?

Honored to be presenting at the 2026 Southeastern School Behavioral Health Conference, and grateful that this session wa...
02/10/2026

Honored to be presenting at the 2026 Southeastern School Behavioral Health Conference, and grateful that this session was selected to be live streamed for virtual attendees as well.

Trauma-informed care is not about lowering expectations. It is about building environments where regulation, connection, and accountability can actually coexist.

In this session, we will break down:
• What trauma really is
• How stress shows up in schools and systems
• Practical foundations for creating safer, more supportive school environments

If you are attending virtually, you will have access to the session live. If you are in person, I would love to connect. This conference is happening in my hometown, and there is something special about learning and building together in the place that raised you.

Hope to meet fellow attendees and speakers. đź§ đź’ś

Check it out! https://sc.edu/study/colleges_schools/artsandsciences/psychology/research_clinical_facilities/labs/sbht/conference/registration/index.php

02/08/2026

“If I give them boundaries, I lose control.”
That’s the fear.
But real boundaries aren’t about control — they’re about clarity.

I can set a limit and hold space for relationship.
I can lead with expectations and help kids develop boundaries of their own.
Both can be true.

Full video + free tool: https://youtu.be/Zw7rvJJJXZw

“In this life, we have to find our people.” -  Fifty bodies. One room. Bad Bunny blasting. Super Bowl Sunday morning. An...
02/08/2026

“In this life, we have to find our people.” -

Fifty bodies. One room. Bad Bunny blasting. Super Bowl Sunday morning. And for 45 minutes, a whole lot of strangers chose to move, sweat, laugh, and belong together.

Community matters. Especially right now.

We are living in a world that feels increasingly divided. A country that often forgets how to listen. And even on a day that is usually about coming together around sport, family, and food, it can feel like lines are being drawn instead of bridges being built.

That is why spaces like matter so much.

Here in Greenville, CycleBar consistently shows what community can look like when it is intentional. They create spaces where people are seen, heard, and safe. They celebrate culture and history. They honor Black History Month, Juneteenth, Hispanic Heritage Month, the LGBTQ+ community, and so much more. Not as a marketing checkbox, but as a lived value.

At TJ Rumler Consulting, that matters deeply to us. Community is not just something we teach. It is something WE look for, partner with, and amplify in the community.

Finding your people does not mean everyone thinks the same. It means you can show up as yourself, move together, and leave feeling a little more human than when you walked in.

Grateful for mornings like this. Grateful for community. And grateful for partners who keep proving that we really do heal together.

Spent the evening with some incredible young leaders at the Teen Leadership Academy, talking about mental health, emotio...
02/06/2026

Spent the evening with some incredible young leaders at the Teen Leadership Academy, talking about mental health, emotional regulation, and what real leadership actually requires.

Tonight’s focus was “Zen Mode Only,” learning practical ways to manage stress, protect mental health, and build resilience. Not so these teens can just survive pressure, but so they can lead through it. Emotionally intelligent leaders build teams, systems, and workplaces where people feel safe, supported, and able to do their best work.

If we want healthier organizations tomorrow, we have to invest in the emotional skills of our leaders today. These students are already asking the right questions, and that gives me a lot of hope. Grateful for the partnership and continued investment in youth wellness by the City of Greenville, South Carolina Government.

This is how we grow leaders who prioritize psychological safety and collective wellbeing. đź’ś

Spent the evening with some incredible young leaders at the Teen Leadership Academy, talking about mental health, emotio...
02/06/2026

Spent the evening with some incredible young leaders at the Teen Leadership Academy, talking about mental health, emotional regulation, and what real leadership actually requires.

Tonight’s focus was “Zen Mode Only,” learning practical ways to manage stress, protect mental health, and build resilience. Not so these teens can just survive pressure, but so they can lead through it. Emotionally intelligent leaders build teams, systems, and workplaces where people feel safe, supported, and able to do their best work.

If we want healthier organizations tomorrow, we have to invest in the emotional skills of our leaders today. These students are already asking the right questions, and that gives me a lot of hope. Grateful for the partnership and continued investment in youth wellness by the City of Greenville, South Carolina Government.

This is how we grow leaders who prioritize psychological safety and collective wellbeing. đź’ś

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