05/11/2022
This is easier said than done. Don't mistake that there may be other children to take care of, or chores around the house, dinner may need to be prepped and cooked. Gove parents the gift of actual HELP!
Stop telling moms to sleep when the baby sleeps. She knows she should sleep when she can. And to be honest, she would love to lay around with her new baby sleeping all day. But she can't.
"I need to eat in peace"
"I need to pump"
"I need alone time"
"I need to clean"
"I need to catch up on laundry"
"I need to spend time with my other kids"
"I need to do some work"
"I need to cook"
"I need to shower"
Instead of telling a new mom to sleep when the baby sleeps, try offering to help!
"I will hold the baby while you shower"
"I will wash the dishes"
"I'll bring dinner by tomorrow"
"Let me take the older kids out for the afternoon"
"Why don't I make a cup of coffee for you"
"I will fold the laundry"
New moms need help. They may not ask for it because in today's world you are suppose to snapback to your original size and routine and keep going as if you didn't just birth a baby. But they do. So check in, drop off a meal, or schedule a time to come by and help out!