03/18/2026
Lavon Wingert, beloved mother, grandmother, and friend, passed away March 17, 2026, at the age of 101. She was born on November 28th, 1924, in Beaver County, Oklahoma, to Charles A. and M. Louise Cassity. The second of four children, Lavon grew up alongside her siblings Cecil, Reola, and Walter.
Her long life spanned eras of immense challenge-the Great Depression, the Dust Bowl, and World War II. Rather than be defeated, Lavon embodied resilience. Her attitude toward adversity could be summed up in her determination to “buck up” and keep moving forward.
Lavon graduated from Rolla High School in Kansas in 1943. The same year, she met the love of her life, Bill Wingert, through a cousin. They married on July 24, 1943, just one day before Bill left to serve in the Marine Corps during World War II. Their marriage lasted 68 years, until Bill's passing in 2011. Together they built a life in and around Boise City Oklahoma raising four children: Judy, Linda, Mitch, and Mark.
Lavon was a woman of tireless energy and creativity. She filled her days with sewing, quilting, crocheting, cooking, gardening, and helping with harvests. She believed strongly in staying busy even timing her naps to strict 15 minutes, “ that was enough.” Early in life she worked as a grocery checker and later as a bookkeeper, but her greatest joy was being a devoted wife and mother.
Her family’s story was marked by both love and loss. Lavon’s older brother Cecil, her kind protector, was killed in action in Holland in 1944, a grief she carried tenderly throughout her life. After Bill's retirement from farming, the couple enjoyed playing cards daily, their games filled with laughter and friendly competition.
Following Bill’s passing, Lavon remained on the family farm, honoring her wish to stay in the place she loved. In 2020, after breaking her hip for the second time, she moved into assisted care, where she made lasting friendships and continued to inspire those around her with her warmth and strength. Her family is deeply grateful to Pioneer Manor for the care and companionship she received there.
Lavon’s legacy is one of resilience, devotion, and love. She will be remembered for her strong spirit, her industrious hands, and her unwavering commitment to family.
She is survived by her children, along with even more grandchildren, great grandchildren, and more great great grandchildren, who were her greatest joy to the end.
A memorial service will be held on Saturday, March 21, 2026, at 2:00 p.m. at the First Christian Church in Boise City.
Friends and family may leave an online condolence, sign the online guest book, or upload a favorite photo to www.hensonnovak.com.
Suggested memorials may be made to the Boise City Christian Church Benevolent Fund, PO Box 846, Boise City, Ok 73933.