04/22/2026
Rheba Donita (Hughes) McCarrell closed her eyes to this world and opened them in the
presence of her Savior, April 21, 2026, in her home in Aledo, Texas at the age of 98 years.
Born in Guymon, Oklahoma on March 20, 1928, to Donald and Margaret Hughes, she
completed her schooling in Guymon before enrolling at Panhandle A&M College in
Goodwell to satisfy her grandfather, Judge Wallace G. Hughes, whose name appears on the Hughes-Strong Auditorium. Then she heard the dance tunes of the University of Oklahoma calling her name! And there she went – OU FOREVER!
Later, and while home working at the Selective Service Draft Board in 1949, she met and married Robert D. McCarrell, a Project Manager at the Michigan-Wisconsin Plant and they soon shared a son, Patrick Shawn and a daughter, Mary Chryl.
Bob’s jobs that took Donita and Pat from the South to parts of the Northern United States,
Canada and back, were probably the catalyst for traveling that created Donita’s Bucket List
to visit all 50 states, which she completed in 2006 when she took Mary Chryl’s family to
Hawaii. She also enjoyed cruises to the Caribbean, seven countries in Europe and Mexico.
Settling back in Guymon in 1961, Donita began work at the Oklahoma State Employment Service office. In 1965, she and Marcus Stamper, someone she had known since school, married and she became PeeWee Mom to Leiloni and Micah -- now having a full house with three girls and a boy! With her quick and continuous smile and desire to make everyone happy with a job, she was promoted to the manager of the Bartlesville, Oklahoma office in 1977. There, her hard work, quick wit and to quote a friend, “She had just he right amount of sweet and sassy,” became her trademark. Yearning to get closer to family, she was able to transfer back to Guymon and manage the office there, where she finally retired in 1987.
Retired and with all kids gone, Donita further honed her bowling skills, became devoted to
the Guymon Theater and along with her younger brother, Jimmy Don’s Hughes’ Tours, the two of them drug their poor mother, Margaret, all over the United States and brought fun and middle America craziness everywhere they went.
Donita was active in her beloved Victory Memorial Methodist Church and thrived in all of her activities including the Daughters of the American Revolution, as President of the
Lioness Club and as Past Worthy Matron and Past Grand Adah of Eastern Star, to name a
few.
After the loss of her mother and brother, Donita moved to Weatherford, Texas in 2005 to be closer to her daughter where she enjoyed 21 years of independent living at the Weatherford Town Center, acquiring many new friends and especially playing Texas Hold ’em.
Donita lamented that she outlived all of her besties – Mary Virginia (Genny) Bailey,
Geraldine (Gerry) Latham and Fontaine (Fonny) Hayes as well as all 26 of her first cousins and many of their children, a fact that she said would mean there would not be many family and friends at her funeral, and she said, “Dang it . . . I outlived them all!”
Donita was preceded in death by her parents, Donald and Margaret Hughes and her
brother, Jim Hughes.
Donita is survived by her son, Pat and wife, Nancy of Sierra Vista, Arizona, daughter Mary
Chryl and husband, Rodney Gray of Aledo, Texas and grandsons Conor McCarrell and
fiancé, Meghan O’Brian of Longmont, Colorado, Spencer Gray and fiancé, Danielle Sears of Snyder, Texas and Brandon Gray and fiancé, Erin Sapronyi of Lubbock, Texas, bonus daughters and their children, Leiloni and husband, Rick Hall of Tulsa and Micah and husband, James Gateley of Frisco, Texas.
The family would like to express sincere gratitude to Henson-Novak Funeral Directors in Guymon and Galbreaith-Pickard in Weatherford, Texas for their wonderful care in bringing Donita back home.
Visitation will be held at 12:00 noon to 2:00 p.m. on Saturday, April 25, 2026, at Victory Memorial Methodist Church.
Funeral Services will be held at 2:00 p.m. on Saturday, April 25, 2026, at Victory Memorial Methodist Church with Pastor David Player Officiating with Interment to follow at Elmhurst Cemetery.
Friends and family may sign the online guest book, leave an online condolence or upload a favorite photo to www.hensonnovak.com.