Dr. James Long, Jr.

Dr. James Long, Jr. I am a life coach, pastor, board-certified professional counselor, and university professor.

11/04/2025

"Word of Life, wherever there is truth, it is yours. But it can be hard to find when I'm deluged with words, questionable claims, and spin. Forgive my careless words that don't promote truth or trustworthiness and are unconcerned for your glory or my neighbor's good. Make simplicity of speech and candor in conversations my testimony, honest echoes of your truth. Amen."
(Heidelberg Catechism 101)

L4L 24: Pardoned from Guilt
11/04/2025

L4L 24: Pardoned from Guilt

Show NotesStep 1: Understand the Problem – Observation and Identification of the Problem (PROBLEM)1. Introduction – What is Guilt?a. Guilt lives in...

L4L 40: Proverbs 23:29-35: Just One More: Breaking Addictive Habits
11/04/2025

L4L 40: Proverbs 23:29-35: Just One More: Breaking Addictive Habits

Message OutlineIssue: What is the problem?1. World’s words and wisdom2. Scripture’s wisdom is radically differentExposition of Proverbs 23:29-35 – ad...

The Lord is Kind and Good
11/03/2025

The Lord is Kind and Good

The Lord is Kind and Good

Posted on: October 29, 2025By: James Long, Jr.We’re grateful to share that Amy was released from the hospital this past ...
11/02/2025

Posted on: October 29, 2025By: James Long, Jr.

We’re grateful to share that Amy was released from the hospital this past weekend. Over the past several weeks, her medical team has worked carefully to identify the cause of the symptoms she’s been experiencing—symptoms that have affected her balance, clarity, and energy.

After running multiple tests and consultations, the doctors now believe these issues were connected not only to elevated thyroid levels but also to a reaction from one of her anti-rejection medications. These medications are necessary and life-sustaining, but they also require delicate balance. The doctors have made adjustments to her anti-rejection regimen, and since then, Amy’s symptoms have been gradually improving.

While she still faces moments of fatigue and discomfort, we are encouraged by the progress she’s making. Her liver continues to function well, and the transplant team remains optimistic about her recovery.

Posted on: October 29, 2025By: James Long, Jr. We’re grateful to share that Amy was released from the hospital this past weekend. Over the past several wee

Every one of us faces problems, whether in relationships, work, or our inner lives. Conflict is inevitable, but how we r...
11/02/2025

Every one of us faces problems, whether in relationships, work, or our inner lives. Conflict is inevitable, but how we respond to those problems determines whether we grow or collapse under their weight. Jay Adams, the pioneer of Biblical Counseling, emphasized that Christians must confront problems biblically rather than avoid them. He often said that our goal is to destroy the problem, not the person.

That single truth reshapes the way we approach conflict, sin, and discouragement. When we handle problems God’s way, we move toward redemption and restoration, not resentment or ruin.

Unfortunately, most of us default to one of three unhelpful patterns: denial, deflection, or despair. Each one offers temporary comfort but ultimately prevents lasting change.

1. Problems Denied: The Path of Avoidance

The first way we mishandle problems is denial, pretending the issue does not exist. Like the first diagram, we push the problem out of view and convince ourselves everything is fine.

Every one of us faces problems, whether in relationships, work, or our inner lives. Conflict is inevitable, but how we respond to those problems determines whet

Dealing with anger is not easy.Dealing with anger is an everyday challenge, and for Christians, it presents a unique opp...
11/02/2025

Dealing with anger is not easy.

Dealing with anger is an everyday challenge, and for Christians, it presents a unique opportunity to demonstrate Christ's teachings of love, patience, and humility. While conflict is inevitable, our response to it can either escalate or diffuse the situation. In this blog, Biblical Wisdom for Handling Anger, we explore the BULLETS acronym, combining practical advice with biblical wisdom, to navigate such encounters as peacemakers.

Embracing the BULLETS Approach

Be Seated

When encountering anger, our first step is to seek a moment of calm. Psalm 37:8 advises us to refrain from anger and forsake wrath. By inviting the other person to sit, we create a space for peaceful dialogue. This act is not just about physical posture but an internal readiness to engage respectfully, reflecting Christ’s composure in times of conflict.

Dealing with anger is not easy. Dealing with anger is an everyday challenge, and for Christians, it presents a unique opportunity to demonstrate Christ'

10/31/2025

This is quite an inspiring prayer found in the Westminster Larger Catechism: Let us pray and see what happens.
"Listening God, you invite us to pray, to call on you and change our world. How bored you must be with our sometimes safe and harmless prayers. Saturate our lives with the Holy Spirit so that we know what to pray, who to pray for, and how best to pray. Holy Spirit, shake up the ways we pray, quickening our hears and expanding our expectations so that we may live our faith more boldly. Amen"

How God Protects You From Temptation
10/31/2025

How God Protects You From Temptation

Overcoming Temptation Through Faith: Lessons for LifeIn this episode of 'Lessons for Life', Pastor James Long Jr. explores the challenges of temptation as a ...

L4L 21: Godly Sorrow vs Worldly Sorrow
10/31/2025

L4L 21: Godly Sorrow vs Worldly Sorrow

Show Notes1. Repentance is an Attitude and Action that must be repeated throughout the Christian’s life on earth2. What is the difference between f...

Every one of us faces problems, whether in relationships, work, or our inner lives. But how we respond to those problems...
10/31/2025

Every one of us faces problems, whether in relationships, work, or our inner lives. But how we respond to those problems determines whether we grow or collapse under their weight. Jay Adams, the pioneer of Biblical Counseling, emphasized that Christians must confront problems biblically rather than avoid them. He often said that our goal is to destroy the problem, not the person.

That single truth reshapes the way we approach conflict, sin, and discouragement. When we handle problems God’s way, we move toward redemption and restoration, not resentment or ruin.

Unfortunately, most of us default to one of three unhelpful patterns: denial, deflection, or despair. Each one offers temporary comfort but ultimately prevents lasting change.

1. Problems Denied: The Path of Avoidance

The first way we mishandle problems is denial, pretending the issue does not exist. Like the first diagram, we push the problem out of view and convince ourselves everything is fine.
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Every one of us faces problems, whether in relationships, work, or our inner lives. But how we respond to those problems determines whether we grow or collapse

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