12/22/2025
The holidays test boundaries in quiet and relentless ways. Saying no can feel heavier than saying yes, especially when you have been conditioned to keep the peace at your own expense. But boundaries are not cruelty. They are protection. They are how recovery stays intact. They are how your nervous system stays regulated when old dynamics try to pull you back into familiar harm.
You are allowed to disappoint people to stay well. You are allowed to opt out of spaces that cost you your peace. You are allowed to choose your mental health and your recovery even when others do not understand.
I wrote more about boundaries, guilt, and protecting your healing during the holidays. Full piece is up on Substack
Rooted Holistic Center is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit dedicated to trauma-informed recovery through rhythm, sound, stillness, and story. Every class and training is grounded in nervous system science and lived experience, guiding individuals from survival toward regulation and connection. Through The Rooted Method, we integrate recovery meetings, somatic bodywork, sound healing, and professional education to make healing accessible, inclusive, and embodied.