03/20/2026
Self care
Sometimes when women come in for bodywork they say things like,
“I should have booked sooner.”
And honestly… I hear that a lot.
Not because women don’t care about their bodies.
But because somewhere along the way many of us were taught that taking care of ourselves should come after everything else.
Kids.
Work.
The house.
Everyone else’s needs.
Recently a client said something that really stuck with me:
“It used to be viewed as selfish to do these types of things before taking care of responsibilities. Reality is, we’re no good to anyone if we don’t have what we need.
It’s interesting that men can go hunting, fishing, play sports, join fantasy football leagues or bowling leagues and that’s viewed as acceptable… but when women choose yoga, coffee with friends, thrift shopping, book clubs, massage, or chiropractic care, it can still be seen as selfish.
Perspectives need to change.”
I couldn’t agree more.
Caring for your body isn’t selfish.
It’s part of what allows you to keep showing up for the life and people you love.
Maybe the shift isn’t learning to do more self-care…Maybe it’s learning to allow more support and bodycare.
I’m curious — have you ever felt guilty for taking time to care for yourself?