11/16/2025
some people will never own up to the grudges they feel especially when it’s rooted in emotional control, jealousy, malicious intent and negativity with no valid reason.
when you call people out and they are not ready to face their triggers, they will deflect what you feel. the best thing to do is keep your distance and sever the connection if that’s what is necessary.
but it’s important to be honest with yourself because sometimes the grudges you feel from another is a reflection of your feelings toward them too. emotional intelligence is the key to healthy discernment.
See you soon
Loving you to life✨