03/19/2026
Many partners are often told that the most meaningful way they can help with a new baby is by feeding them. In reality, especially in the early days, introducing bottles too soon can sometimes interrupt a baby’s learning process at the breast and may create extra work for you.
There are many other ways partners can make a huge difference during this time. Practical support might include bringing the baby to you for feeds, burping the baby afterward, handling diaper changes, or settling the baby after feeds. Partners can also take care of household tasks, refill your water and snacks, and make sure you have time to rest and recover. These kinds of support not only protect the breastfeeding relationship while it’s being established, but can also build their own strong bond with the baby and strengthen the bond with you!
[Image Description: Infographic featuring a father with an infant. Text reads, “Myth: The only way a partner can help with breastfeeding is by offering a bottle to baby. Fact: There are many ways to bond with a baby. In the early days, your partner can support that bond by caring for you. Over the long term, partners help by providing a loving, safe presence and showing children that love and comfort come in many forms—not just through food." The LLL USA logo sits below the text.]