12/21/2025
SighâŚ.so true.
Christmas changes after 50.
Not in a way that takes something awayâ
but in a way that reveals what was always there.
When I was younger,
I thought Christmas lived in the noise.
The torn paper,
the last-minute assembling,
the full house,
the early mornings that came too fast.
I thought the magic was loud.
But now I know
itâs quiet.
Itâs in the glow of the tree
before the day begins.
Itâs in the memories that arrive unannouncedâ
some sweet,
some tender,
some carrying names I still miss.
After 50, Christmas becomes reflective.
Every ornament holds a season of life.
Every recipe remembers a pair of hands.
Every carol opens a door
to who we were thenâ
before we knew
how quickly time would move.
I didnât understand back then
how fast children grow,
how parents age,
how suddenly a year becomes a memory.
But here I am nowâ
older,
a little slower,
and far more grateful.
Because Christmas after 50
isnât about the rush anymore.
Itâs about the stillness that settles in
when you finally realize
that time itself is the gift.
Itâs holding the people you love
a little longer.
Itâs releasing what never mattered.
Itâs thanking God for another Decemberâ
another breath,
another chance to love well.
Itâs sitting quietly
and realizing the greatest miracles
were never under the tree.
They were around itâ
every child,
every answered prayer,
every ordinary moment
that turned out to be sacred.
Maybe thatâs the beauty of growing olderâ
you stop chasing wonder
and start recognizing it.
So hereâs to Christmas after 50â
where joy is gentler,
gratitude is deeper,
love is wider,
and the meaning is clearer than ever.
And if youâre reading this,
may you rest in this truth:
even as the years change us,
Godâs love does not.
It was faithful then.
It is faithful now.
And it will be faithful
in every Christmas still to come.