10/10/2023
You just found out someone has cancer, what do you say?
Wednesday Tip:
When you learn that someone in your inner circle is facing cancer, it’s important to tailor your support to their individual needs and personality. Reach out through a call, text, or in-person visit to let them know you’re there for them in any way they need. Follow up with simple messages not expecting a long return message. When you are going for an errand, offer to run their errands too. Text to just let them know you’re thinking of them. For those outside your inner circle, like a fellow parent on your child’s sports team, a colleague at work or a neighbor you don’t usually interact with, extend your care and willingness to support. Express your condolences and ask if there is anything you can do or if there’s someone else helping them that you could reach out to.
Avoid sharing phrases like “you can fight this” or recounting stories of others who have passed away from cancer. Or worse yet, look at them as if they’ve just been given a death sentence. Instead, maintain a supportive demeanor. Remember, cancer isn’t a death sentence: it’s a wake-up call to embrace life fully. Encourage the person to listen to their body and take steps towards living authentically, regardless of the time frame they’re working with.
This is an opportunity for us as humans to demonstrate compassion and connect with one another, whether it’s helping a close friend, family member, neighbor or someone in the community you’ve never met before. There are numerous ways to provide support, from sending a thoughtful message to organizing a group effort to assist with various tasks.
Have a Great day!
