10/08/2025
"Today I taught my students a lesson about kindness using two apples.
Before class, I secretly dropped one of the apples on the floor several times. On the outside, though, both apples looked perfect—shiny, red, and ready to eat.
I held them up and asked the children to describe what they saw. They agreed: “They look the same.”
Then I picked up the apple I’d dropped and told the class I didn’t like it. That it was ugly. That I thought it was disgusting. I encouraged the kids to say mean things too. Hesitant at first, they joined in:
“You’re smelly.”
“I don’t even know why you exist.”
“You’ve probably got worms inside.”
We passed that poor apple around the circle until it had absorbed every unkind word.
Next, we did the opposite. We passed the other apple around and spoke kindness:
“You’re a lovely apple.”
“You’re beautiful.”
“Your color is amazing.”
When we were done, both apples still looked the same on the outside.
But when I cut them open, the difference was clear. The apple we had been kind to was fresh and juicy inside. The apple we had bullied? Bruised. Mushy. Broken.
Immediately, the children understood.
That’s what unkind words do. On the outside, someone might look fine, but inside? They carry the bruises we’ve caused.
I shared with them how someone’s words had hurt me just last week. I looked fine, I smiled, but inside I was hurting—just like that bruised apple.
Unlike apples, though, we have the power to stop it. We can teach children it’s not okay to mistreat others. We can encourage them to stand up, just like one little girl in class who bravely refused to say something unkind to the apple.
More hurt happens when no one speaks up. Let’s raise a generation that chooses kindness.
Because the tongue has no bones, but it’s strong enough to break a heart. So be careful with your words."
[Relax Kids Tamworth]