Mortuary Science & Funeral Service

04/03/2026

These are always interesting pieces to see. Crane and Breed salesman paperweight give aways. Do you have any in your collection? Please share yours.

Crane and Breed fisk metalic burial case / coffin paperweight. Antique, and is considered the “holy grail” of the Crane and Breed collection. Rare and in excellent condition, heavy. See photo for measurement.

03/31/2026

Pet Death Care: A Growing but Often Overlooked Need

Losing a pet is deeply personal. For many, it feels no different than losing a member of the family. What people do not always realize is how complicated the practical side can be.

Today, many owners cannot bury their pets at home. Apartment living, rental agreements, and local regulations often make burial impossible or unsafe. Because of this, services like pet crematories have become essential.

Most pet aftercare falls into a few categories. Private cremation allows ashes to be returned to the owner, while communal cremation does not. Aquamation is a newer and more environmentally gentle option that is becoming more available. Pet cemeteries offer burial where space and access allow. Many providers also offer memorial items such as urns, jewelry, or paw prints.

When a loss does occur, even a simple online search can connect you with local services that will handle your pet’s remains with dignity and help you memorialize and honor their life.

These services exist because people want a respectful way to say goodbye, even when traditional burial is not an option.

At the same time, this area of death care is less regulated than human services. Many families make decisions quickly, often through a veterinary office, without knowing all their options.

Pet death care may not always be talked about, but it reflects something very real. The bond between people and their animals, and the need to honor that bond with care and dignity.

03/15/2026

Across every culture and every period of history, humanity has shared a common practice. We care for our dead.

Anthropologists and sociologists recognize funeral rites as a cultural universal. Every society develops ways to honor those who have died and to support the living who remain. These rituals help families grieve, remember, and begin to find their way forward.

In modern communities, funeral directors help carry out this responsibility. When a family calls, often in the most difficult moment of their lives, we are there to answer questions, provide guidance, and help them navigate decisions that most people never expect to face.

Sometimes that means helping plan a full service that brings a community together to remember a life. Other times it means something much simpler.

At the very least, funeral directors are there to come when the call is made, to bring someone into our care with dignity and respect, and to see that their final disposition is handled properly according to the wishes of the family.

However a family chooses to say goodbye, the responsibility to care for the dead and to support the living remains an important part of every society. Funeral service exists to help carry out that responsibility with compassion, professionalism, and respect.

03/11/2026

Happy National Funeral Directors and Morticians Day!

“The Undertakers Arrive.”

Engravings like this capture a scene that was once common in many homes. Death often occurred within the family residence, and when the undertakers arrived they stepped into rooms filled with grief, uncertainty, and quiet sorrow. Their responsibility was not only the practical care of the deceased, but also guiding families through the first moments after loss with dignity and steadiness.

While funeral service has evolved over time, the heart of the profession remains the same. Funeral directors continue to support families at one of the most difficult points in life, helping them navigate decisions, traditions, and remembrance with care and professionalism.

In 2008, the United States Congress formally recognized March 11 as National Funeral Director Day, establishing a day meant to acknowledge the dedication of funeral professionals and the important role they play within their communities. It serves as a reminder to recognize and appreciate those who quietly carry out this work while helping families through grief and loss.

03/08/2026

A framed reminder hangs outside the preparation room door in our funeral home.

Most people will never see what lies beyond that door, and in many ways that is as it should be. Yet the work that takes place there carries a responsibility that those in funeral service understand well.

Behind that door, loved ones are cared for with dignity and quiet respect. Some are being gently prepared for viewing. Others may be awaiting cremation, embalming, or burial. Some are being held temporarily while arrangements are completed or while plans are made for burial days, weeks, or even months later. Others may be prepared for their journey home, whether that means transport across the country or across an ocean.

No two situations are exactly the same, but the responsibility remains constant.

Every person who enters that room understands that the individual before them is not simply a case or a task. They were someone’s parent, spouse, child, or friend. Someone who was deeply loved.

That small framed sign serves as a quiet reminder to all who pass that door that the trust placed in our profession is profound. Behind every preparation is a life that was lived and a family who is grieving.

The work done there may rarely be seen, but it must always be carried out with care, humility, and respect.

03/02/2026

From Dust We Came, To Dust We Return

There is something about an open grave that quiets a person. The earth is parted. The space is ready. Whether it will receive a casket, an urn, or wrapped remains, the questions it leaves behind for the living are often the same.

It is simple. Honest. Unavoidable.

Standing at the edge of a grave has a way of narrowing your focus. The noise fades. What felt urgent yesterday feels smaller. What truly mattered begins to stand out.

For many, this moment stirs reflection.
How did I live.
What will remain.
Who will remember, and for what.

For those of us in funeral service, that reflection exists alongside responsibility. This is where preparation, coordination, and care culminate. Vault placement, alignment, timing, safety, dignity. Every detail matters because trust has been placed in our hands.

This profession does not just confront mortality. It safeguards it.

When you see an image like this, what does it make you think about? Peace. Finality. Perspective. Something else?

Photo taken with permission:
A wooden casket is placed in a standard, simple outer burial container/vault prior to being closed within the grave space.

02/23/2026

Honoring the Legacy of African American Funeral Service Professionals

Black History Month gives us an opportunity to pause and recognize leaders whose work shaped not only their communities, but this profession as a whole. In funeral service, African American funeral directors, morticians, embalmers, and burial associations helped define what dignity, reverence, and community care truly look like.

During slavery, funerals were often held quietly and sometimes in secret. Even when denied formal rites, enslaved people preserved ancestral traditions. Graves were marked with shells, glass, iron objects, and personal belongings. Death was understood as a spiritual transition. Preparing the body and honoring the soul became sacred acts of faith and cultural preservation. From that history grew the Homegoing tradition, a celebration of life and the soul’s return home, marked by prayer, music, testimony, and strong community presence.

After emancipation, Black owned funeral homes became some of the first independent Black businesses in America. When segregation limited access to white establishments, African American funeral directors stepped forward to provide professional preparation, dignified services, and proper burial grounds. They worked alongside Black churches, formed burial societies, and built institutions that strengthened entire communities. In many cities and rural towns alike, the funeral home became a pillar of stability, leadership, and economic empowerment.

In 1924, African American funeral professionals organized nationally, a movement that evolved into the National Funeral Directors & Morticians Association. For over a century, this association has advanced professional standards, education, advocacy, and collective support for its members. Its leadership and membership have responded to epidemics, natural disasters, mass casualty events, and national tragedies, ensuring that families received dignified and respectful care.

During the Civil Rights Movement, Black funeral homes often served as gathering spaces when few others were safe. When churches were bombed or leaders were assassinated, African American morticians carried the responsibility of preparing and honoring those lives with courage and professionalism. In many cases, those services became moments of national reflection and resolve.

The traditions remain vibrant today. The open casket viewing, the detailed funeral program, the powerful music, coordinated attire, and the repast that follows are more than customs. They are expressions of faith, cultural continuity, and communal healing.

This month, we honor the generations of African American funeral professionals whose resilience, skill, and leadership elevated this profession. Their influence continues to shape how we serve families, uphold standards, and protect the dignity of every life entrusted to our care.

02/22/2026

I have always been drawn to the way older art handled death. It was not about shock value. It felt steady, honest, and reflective.

Too Late by Paul Frenzeny shows Death stepping through an open doorway into a young woman’s room. That doorway speaks for itself. It feels like that quiet crossing from life into death, a line that once crossed cannot be walked back.

The palette and easel beside the bed suggest work left unfinished. Images like this were meant to make people stop for a moment and think about their own mortality.

In our profession, that moment is not symbolic. It begins with a first call, sometimes when someone has just been found, and a family is trying to process what feels unreal. We step into that space carefully. We bring order, dignity, and calm to a situation that feels anything but calm. Even when a life feels unfinished, our role is to help the family begin their own next steps with care and peace.

02/20/2026

The Fate and Final Disposition of JFK’s First Casket

First and foremost, the assassination of President John F. Kennedy was a national tragedy. It changed the country in a single afternoon and remains one of the most examined events in American history.

From a funeral service standpoint, there is an important clarification many people are unaware of.

There was no public open casket viewing for President Kennedy.

After he was pronounced dead at Parkland Hospital on November 22, 1963, a solid bronze casket was obtained in Dallas and used to transport him aboard Air Force One. Following the autopsy at Bethesda Naval Hospital, funeral arrangements in Washington were handled by Joseph Gawler’s Sons.

A different casket was selected for the services in Washington. At the request of First Lady Jacqueline Kennedy, the casket remained closed for all public observances in order to preserve the dignity of the President due to the catastrophic head injury he sustained.

The President lay in state in the U.S. Capitol Rotunda on November 24, 1963, in a closed, flag draped casket. Although the casket was never opened, more than 250,000 people passed by to pay their respects as it was guarded around the clock.

The casket remained closed during the White House visitation, the funeral Mass at St. Matthew’s Cathedral, and the interment at Arlington National Cemetery on November 25, 1963.

Now to the lesser known detail.

The original Dallas casket was not used for the public rites. Department of Defense memoranda dated February 18 and February 25, 1966, now preserved by the National Archives, document its final disposition. Forty two holes were drilled into it. Three 80 pound sandbags were placed inside. It was secured and flown aboard a C 130 aircraft. Approximately one hundred miles east of Washington, over water estimated at nine thousand feet deep, it was released. Parachutes controlled the descent, and the crew confirmed it sank immediately.

The stated purpose was to ensure it would not become a public exhibit.

For those of us in funeral service, that decision carries weight. Even in the middle of national shock, there was deliberate attention to dignity, privacy, and preventing tragedy from becoming spectacle.

02/13/2026

Just a little light humor today…

02/11/2026

I’ve seen some really clever AI caricatures floating around lately, especially from people in funeral service.

If you’ve made one of yourself or your coworkers, drop it in the comments. I’d love to see more from folks who actually work in the field. Here’s mine…

02/10/2026

Premature burial was not a myth. It shaped embalming education.

An embalming manual published in 1898 spends serious time warning about premature burial. The author explains that signs we associate with death can be misleading. Breathing may be too faint to detect. Pulse may not be felt. Skin may be cold. Muscles may be relaxed and life still present.

Because of this risk, embalmers were taught to pause, observe, and avoid haste at all costs. The book even references early X ray testing when doubt existed.

Fast forward to today and similar stories still appear, often from countries with limited medical resources. People waking up in morgues or funeral homes after being declared dead.

What is unsettling is that this risk was already well understood more than a hundred years ago. Long before modern medicine, embalming education emphasized caution before procedure.

Some fears were not irrational. They were learned the hard way.