12/10/2025
A parent in a custody case hands you a letter from their lawyer. Asks you to document their side of things. You panic.
Your brain thinks helping will keep the parent happy. But documenting “their side” crosses an ethical line. So you freeze. Spend hours trying to figure out neutral wording. Miss your next session prep time. And still submit it feeling unsure.
New therapists don’t know how to set boundaries in custody documentation. So they get pulled into parent battles they never meant to enter.
Here’s an option to consider from my Court Documentation Template:
“This report summarizes the counseling services provided to [Client Name] from [Start Date] to [End Date]. This documentation is provided in response to [court order/subpoena] and focuses on information relevant to the client’s individual treatment goals.”
See what it does? Focuses on the child’s treatment goals. Not parent drama. Sets the boundary in your structure.
This is from my Court & Legal Document Templates. $19 total. Less than $7 per template.
You get 3 professional fillable forms:
Court Documentation Report
HIPAA-Compliant Release of Information
Legal Document Submission Cover Sheet
You’ll respond to custody requests in 20 minutes instead of agonizing for 6 hours about whose “side” to document. You’ll maintain clear therapeutic boundaries without having to explain them to angry parents. Your stomach won’t drop when you see “attorney” in your client’s file. And you’ll protect the child’s treatment from being weaponized.
These templates aren’t legal advice. They’re just professional formatting that keeps you neutral when parents push you to take sides.
Reading this on your phone right now? Do you counsel kids in custody situations? Tap my bio before the next parent hands you a lawyer’s letter.
P.S. Free SOAP audit also in bio.
What custody documentation stresses you out most? (Comment below - let’s talk about it)