12/23/2025
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I didn't want Christmas to pass by over here without stopping for a moment and saying Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to you all.
Unfortunately, this genealogist isn't up to returning to work. Not yet. (And maybe not for the foreseeable future).
Just when I thought life was calming down, and albeit our holidays would be dim because of depression, bad health, etc -- I thought life was... "even-ing out." "Feeling normal again" in a way.
And then yesterday happened. Y'all remember last November that practically on the same day I lost my tortie girl, Zira -- Marcel, my youngest boy, had to have a major surgery. A femoral head ostectomy. (He made a complete recovery from that, btw!)
Well, yesterday - Marcel appeared and I won't get into gory details... but it was bad. He was gurgling, and I was just so sure he was a goner. We rushed him to an emergency vet and after a ridiculous amount of money spent that we do not have... they saved his life. (On top of a bit of miscare and negligence, tbh). Two trips to the clinic here in town today after they opened. Probably a trip to the clinic again tomorrow, maybe even once a week for God knows how long. My boy has a long, hard road ahead of him.
I'm just a wreck, y'all. I'm a mess. My own health is *severely* deteriorating. The health of all in this house is. Now to add this onto the proverbial plate... I'm at my breaking point. Right at what should be the happiest time of the year.
So yeah, I might go ghost on this page for a while. I would say that I'm sorry for that, but ultimately, I'm not. I have to focus on real life - myself, my parents, and my animals.
I love you all, and thank you so much for 'doing life with me' so to speak. For being here for the ups, the downs, and the in betweens. Thank you all for the help you've given me, and the love you've shown everything I do: genealogy, cemetery work, DNA, and beyond. Especially my historical write-ups (I'm quite passionate about those).
For now, I just gotta step completely and totally away. I know y'all understand.
Once again -- Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays, and Happy New Year to all of you over here. ❤