11/06/2025
India trip #8 - Jan/Feb 2020 (yes RIGHT before COVID - we were IN India when WHO declared it a pandemic). This was a very different, highly personal and most special trip of our lives - to adopt our daughter Jayashri. With a 5 day travel notice and political unrest happening in India (+ COVID looming!), we set off with our helpers - my sister in law Sally and our friend/doula (with Veda) Jen - a well seasoned mama & traveler. The whole story is a whirlwind - too much to write here. It was an incredibly stressful time (6 year old meltdowns, minimal info and language barriers at the orphanage, navigating feeding a child w/ cleft palate, the airport losing Mark's passport, the US Embassy etc etc) but also moments of joy. But the icing on the cake for me (aside from gaining an amazing daughter) - were the people that "happened" to be there. First, two Swamis from the ashrams in Minneapolis & India (one whom orchestrated the ceremony to honor our baby we lost at my previous trip) were passing through Delhi on different days travelling between ashrams and got to meet Jaya. Secondly, my best friend's dad (who married us!) was in Delhi for his mother's funeral and got to meet Jaya. 3 very important people in our lives showed up. What an incredible story.