01/27/2026
Just because a child had food, shelter, and family vacations doesn’t mean their emotional needs were met.
Many of us learned roles early on, not because we were difficult or broken, but because our feelings didn’t have space, safety, or attunement. Role theory helps us understand these parts as survival strategies, not character flaws.
When we stop trying to “fix” these roles and start listening to them with compassion, something shifts. Healing doesn’t come from self-criticism, it comes from understanding.