02/17/2026
Political differences aren’t just about values or facts.
Underneath them is something more foundational:
Our nervous system’s sense of safety.
For some, safety has come through structure and clear boundaries.
For others, safety has come through being seen, understood, and protected within relationships.
Neither is wrong. Both are shaped by lived experience.
When these safety frameworks clash, conversations shift from dialogue to survival.
Regulated dialogue requires both structure and relational safety. That’s what makes disagreement survivable.
Read more:
https://www.heartmindrva.com/post/how-nervous-system-regulation-shapes-political-perspectives