Ms. Shannon’s Counseling Page

Ms. Shannon’s Counseling Page Information for teachers, parents, and anyone interested in mental health, behaviors, and counseling.

11/07/2025

😫 Inattention, defiance, or emotional outbursts? It might not be “bad behavior”…

🌪️ When sensory needs go unmet, kids can struggle to stay calm, focused, or regulated.

🏫 Sometimes the real challenge isn’t the child.

It’s the environment around them.

11/07/2025

It's Think About it Thursday!

11/07/2025

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11/07/2025
11/05/2025

Most of what we've been told about burnout is wrong.
And that's why so many educators are burning out, and then blaming themselves for it.😔

Burnout isn't a personal failure. It's a nervous system injury.📣📣

From a polyvagal perspective, burnout happens when your nervous system gets stuck in chronic dysregulation:
⚡Too much sympathetic activation (stress, doing, hypervigilance)
😴Not enough parasympathetic restoration (rest, safety, recovery)
🥶Eventually collapsing into dorsal vagal shutdown (freeze, numbness, collapse)

Understanding burnout through a nervous system lens changes everything:
👩‍🏫Instead of "I'm not strong enough" → "My nervous system needs protection"
👩‍🏫Instead of "I just need to push harder" → "My body is asking me to stop"
👩‍🏫Instead of "A vacation will fix this" → "I need sustained nervous system recovery"

The truth? Prevention is simpler than recovery. And prevention looks like:
✨Honoring your body's signals before collapse (notice sensations!)
✨Building in micro-moments of rest daily (settler practices!)
✨Protecting your nervous system like the resource it is (teacher well-being!)
✨Saying no before you're empty (boundaries!)

Your nervous system isn't broken. It's doing exactly what it's supposed to do: trying to protect you.

⚡The question is: Will you listen?⚡

11/05/2025

via Educated by Nature

11/01/2025

Educated by Nature 🧡

10/29/2025

When a child is overwhelmed, they borrow the calm of the adult beside them.
If that adult’s nervous system is unsettled, the child feels it too.

Our regulation shapes theirs — it’s contagious.
Before we can guide a child through big feelings, we must learn to manage our own.

Learn more about emotional regulation and get practical strategies inside our Managing Big Feelings Toolkit (available now):
at link in comments or via Linktree Shop in Bio.

10/27/2025
10/24/2025
10/24/2025

Some children aren’t being defiant — their nervous system is simply doing its best to find balance.

The path to emotional regulation isn’t about control or quick fixes; it’s a gradual process built on safety, connection, and repeated co-regulation.

Our new visual — The Regulation Pathway — breaks down the five key steps children move through on their journey towards self-regulation.

When we understand the pathway, we can support a child exactly where they are, rather than expecting them to manage what their brain isn’t ready for yet.

Explore each step — from safety to self-regulation — and discover how adults can guide the process with empathy and consistency.

You’ll find a deeper dive into how the brain supports this process in The Brain Toolkit. Link in comments below or via Linktree Shop in our Bio.

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