01/12/2026
"You were once wild here.
Don't let them tame you."
— E.M. Forster, “A Room with a View”
I’ve pondered this quote for several days, researched what the author meant and how it relates to the characters, his intention for the reader, and how it we might connect to this quote today.
It makes me remember the freedom of childhood. Particularly the freedom of a Saturday morning. A bowl of cereal parked in front of cartoons. Being outside creating imaginary spaces and foods and making up games. Trying stunts that were never possible.
“You were once wild here”
I think this means free to be who we were created to be, in the places and spaces we choose to go, the path our heart desires to travel. To be curious, and expressive, and to feel alive with purpose, in the here and now. Here in a place, relationship, phase of life, or in our own body.
“Don’t let them tame you”
This phrase warns us against external pressures like fear, shame, routine, authority, and even well meaning people. These factors work to domesticate or tone down our instincts, stall our creativity, or diminish our truth. Conformity asks us to extinguish our spark in order to fit in.
When someone mocks our choices and decisions about the way we eat, move, play, worship, earn, they’re demonstrating their lack of freedom. They’re asking, or sometimes demanding, that we conform to norms and molds society has created. Those walls they themselves have given in to.
We can live deeply true to our self, who we are outside of and before other people’s opinions, expectations, and societal rules narrowed our vision of who we really are. Once we understand who we want to be, we can create healthy patterns and routines, establish boundaries that serve us well, and commit to become our authentic, passionate, instinctive self.
We may have experienced outside constraint, repression, or social taming. As long as we are living, it’s never too late to claim, or reclaim, our given nature.
At its heart, the quote is about:
Autonomy, staying connected to your inner compass
Authenticity, resisting the urge to shrink or soften what makes you you
Remembrance, reclaiming parts of yourself you may have abandoned
Living out loud and true to our original spirit doesn’t need to actually be or even feel loud. This is simply a call to allow our voice to rise up and out. Whether that is spoken or just lived is up to us.
We can live boldly and unconventionally once we recognize the difference between who we are and who we are told to be.
Stars In Motion is a place where you can find yourself again.