Magnolia Birth Doula Services

Magnolia Birth Doula Services I am an experienced, certified doula in the St. Louis area. As a birth doula, I work with expecting families to help them prepare for their ideal birth.

I provide information as well as physical and emotional support to help ensure that the birth space is conducive to the new family's ideal birth. I view birth as one of the most holy & blessed events that people partake in and I want to help make your birth truly your own!

3 hours after I fell asleep from last night’s homebirth, this mama’s water broke. And just 12 hours later baby was here!...
04/28/2026

3 hours after I fell asleep from last night’s homebirth, this mama’s water broke. And just 12 hours later baby was here! I was blessed to be there when this mama welcomed her first baby. And extra blessed to be there for this little one too. She had a powerful unmedicated birth this time💕

Last night welcomed a new little one! I was blessed to be apart of a beautiful, prayerful, amazing water birth. It was t...
04/28/2026

Last night welcomed a new little one! I was blessed to be apart of a beautiful, prayerful, amazing water birth. It was this mama’s third birth but first unmedicated & first homebirth. She did such a beautiful job welcoming her baby here!

04/24/2026

This is what it’s all for. Children are gifts from God. And as parents we are chosen to do what is right by them. This is the reason for writing a birth plan, for hiring a team that will be the hands & feet of Jesus in your birth space, the reason you will be pushed to your limits. This experience is not for others, it’s not to be diminished, it’s not to boiled down to a medical event to be managed by others. It’s a pivotal moment in your life where you lay your life down for another, where you spill forth blood & water so another can live. It’s pure love being acted out right here on Earth. It’s an experience so intense you can only rely on God to get through it. I hope when this time comes, you feel God’s love & strength. I hope the people you invited in respect how holy & good this work is. And they are honored to be there. Because you & God’s design for welcoming life deserve nothing less.

Having a baby is a beautiful, holy experience. People that are invited to be apart of your pregnancy & birth should hono...
04/24/2026

Having a baby is a beautiful, holy experience. People that are invited to be apart of your pregnancy & birth should honor how sacred the experience is.
You deserve to have a team that create & maintain a calm, peaceful environment for you to grow & birth your baby into.
In contrast, I support:
💕people who provide families with calm reassurance
💕people who know the mother guides the experience
💕people who trust your body to nourish your baby well
💕people who value privacy & respect
💕people who feel honored to be in your space

You deserve nothing but that❤️

It’s like what I’ve been saying for a decade is true!!! Now there’s research to back it up.
04/23/2026

It’s like what I’ve been saying for a decade is true!!! Now there’s research to back it up.

Birth plans work! The Role of Birth Plan in Shaping Maternal and Neonatal Outcomes: A Systematic Review and Meta-Analysis of Randomized Controlled Trials..... "Birth plans were associated with a higher likelihood of normal vaginal delivery (RR 3.22; 95% CI 1.49–6.95; p = 0.003) and increased odds of early breastfeeding (RR 3.68; 95% CI 1.48–9.15; p = 0.005)... Conclusions: Birth plans may be associated with improved maternal outcomes, including increased rates of vaginal delivery, and early breastfeeding. The overall evidence suggests birth plans as a strategy to promote a more respectful childbirth."
https://www.thieme-connect.de/products/ejournals/abstract/10.1055/a-2849-7990
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I hear it quite often. “I know my provider doesn’t support my plan. But I will just say no if they suggest something I d...
04/23/2026

I hear it quite often. “I know my provider doesn’t support my plan. But I will just say no if they suggest something I don’t want.”

Here’s the thing though, it’s not always as simple as you say no & they say ok & leave. This is what I see all too often. Fear, coercion, literally sometimes providers yelling at my clients like they are the parent & my client is the child.

When you are vulnerable, it’s traumatic to be treated this way. Having a baby should be one of the happiest days of your life. Not one where you had to fight tooth & nail to do what’s healthiest for you & baby.

Firing a provider may not feel good. It may be hard. But I can guarantee an instance like this while working to welcome your baby here is much harder. Finding the right provider feels safe & welcoming. You deserve that.

We walk into the hospital to feel safe & secure. Hospitals mean there is quick access to emergency medicine. We’re sold ...
04/23/2026

We walk into the hospital to feel safe & secure. Hospitals mean there is quick access to emergency medicine. We’re sold on the idea that birth & pregnancy are inherently dangerous & hospitals keep us safe. Interventions are there to provide protection from complications.
But complications can actually be caused by those life-saving interventions. They have their place in true emergencies but we’ve gotten to the point where interventions are used as prevention & in turn are leading to complications.
I know interventions can help, I’m not against them. But I am against:
🩸increased rates of postpartum hemorrhage caused by gross overuse of Pitocin
💉convincing women they can’t birth without an epidural because we don’t provide education on how to cope otherwise
🪡doing c-sections routinely that lead to long term health issues for women & babies
👩‍🍼increased NICU admissions because babies are born too early through non-medical inductions
💦breaking water just to speed things up
✂️episiotomies offered routinely that lead to long term pain & suffering
🗓️dangerous inductions scheduled simply so a provider gets paid for the delivery

Having a doula helps you navigate what the hospital has to offer. To help you ensure you are using what makes sense for you. Because while having a baby can be simple the interventions surrounding it can be hard.

I’m hired to fill gaps in the medical system. To help clients navigate the complexities of a system that protects its bo...
04/23/2026

I’m hired to fill gaps in the medical system. To help clients navigate the complexities of a system that protects its bottom line first. That acts like their interventions don’t have risks while causing harm & trauma to women & babies by overusing those dangerous interventions. I can do that because I don’t answer to that system, I answer to clients.

This isn’t to say that these programs won’t help those that come in with no support or those who would never seek out or know about doula support. They can benefit from consistent female support.

But no one should ever expect that this type of doula will ever replace an independent doula. If your goal is to have a healthy birth despite this system then it starts long before you set foot in the hospital. It continues on with someone who’s not answering to the hospitals. And it’ll will continue on long past birth. It won’t & can’t be the same.

Let’s get uncomfortable.

Hospitals didn’t suddenly wake up and decide to empower women.

They noticed something:
🗣️ People trust doulas
🗣️ Doulas improve birth satisfaction
🗣️ Doulas make the system look better

So what did they do?

They built their own version.

Now we’re seeing “around-the-clock doulas” employed by the very system they’re supposed to help you navigate.

This is integration into a system doulas were meant to remain independent from.

Before the comments start spiraling—this is not about whether these individuals care. Many do. Deeply.

This is about structure.

🗣️ They are structurally limited 🗣️

And when we blur that line, families walk in thinking they have full-spectrum, independent advocacy…
When in reality, they have hospital-approved support.
Those are not the same thing.

A true independent doula:
✨ answers only to you
✨ builds relationship + trust throughout pregnancy
✨ can push back, question, slow things down
✨ supports your autonomy—without fear of consequences

A hospital-employed “doula”:
⚠️ answers to policies, supervisors, and systems
⚠️ must maintain job security and compliance
⚠️ cannot freely challenge the environment they work for

That changes everything.
You didn’t hire them.
The hospital did.

And words matter—because calling them “doulas” makes you believe you have something you don’t.

You think:
“This person is mine.”
“They’ll help me stand my ground.”

But they may not be able to.

This isn’t about attacking people. This is about naming structures.

Because birth isn’t neutral.
So support can’t be either.

If they answer to the hospital, they don’t answer only to you.

And that matters.

Let’s stop pretending it doesn’t.

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When Western medicine got involved in birth it morphed into this.Which is why we should now be questioning:💉non-medical ...
04/22/2026

When Western medicine got involved in birth it morphed into this.
Which is why we should now be questioning:

💉non-medical inductions for the sake of a providers schedule
🩸overuse of Pitocin in inductions & augmentation that’s leading to increased rates of postpartum hemorrhage
🪡increased rates of cesareans caused by overmanagement of labor
🧪serious medical decisions based off of flawed technologies like late term US

Because twilight birth proves we thought we were helping women when in fact we were causing harm & trauma.

Have you heard of twilight birth? Did your grandparents, great grandparents, experience this?

Once upon a time, THIS was normal. Intially, preferred by some women because the ability to birth without pain is appealing. However, the reality wasn't actually birthing without pain, it was birthing without memory.

What was once celebrated as an advancement, shifted to a fight for autonomy in birth.

For those with positive experiences, they simply had no memory of the birth. For others, they woke with marks on their wrists from being restrained. Restraining garments like the one pictured were used to keep women from harming themselves and staff.

Twilight birth wasn't a calm pain free birth. Twilight birth was being restrained because women were blacked out while still moving, having no way to consciously find ways to cope with labor.

Twilight birth meant restraint. It meant no support people. It meant no personal comfort, support or autonomy. Forceps, episiotomies, etc., became necessary and impacted obstetrical practices long after twilight birth ended.

Morphine and scopolamine were used to induce a state of semiconscious, amnesic labor as late as the 1960s.

What does this mean for birthing people today? It's a reminder that it is not just okay but important to ask questions. It's okay to not accept policy or status quo. It is about asking for EVIDENCE-BASED care and practices.

Autonomy in birth matters.

2026 is filling up fast! There are only 14 spots left for this year. Summer is full but if you’re expecting a Fall/Winte...
04/22/2026

2026 is filling up fast! There are only 14 spots left for this year. Summer is full but if you’re expecting a Fall/Winter baby I’m your doula!

My decade of experience has helped my clients;
🤰have a more satisfying birth experience
🤰have a very high unmedicated birth rates
🤰have a high breastfeeding success rates
🤰have lower csection rates than national average

If you’d love to talk, I offer free consultations that you can schedule online!

This baby I did not think I’d meet for several weeks but it was healthiest for him to be born at 37 weeks. His mama did ...
04/22/2026

This baby I did not think I’d meet for several weeks but it was healthiest for him to be born at 37 weeks. His mama did strong work bringing him here through induction COMPLETELY UNMEDICATED. With her first baby! That is quite a feat!

And, I had another client who I thought I’d need backup for today. It’s so stressful to have to tell a client I may not be able to make it, instead of being stressed she prayed this mama was able to still the birth she planned for💕 And that’s exactly what happened.

Last week this little lady decided to come lightning fast, surprisingly at home right after her mama’s water broke, whic...
04/22/2026

Last week this little lady decided to come lightning fast, surprisingly at home right after her mama’s water broke, which was not long after some very slight irregular contractions started. This was very much not the plan. But thankfully baby & mama was safe. Second babies can truly be butter babies!

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Babies and mothers intrinsically know what to do during the birthing process. As a doula, I am there to provide them the reassurance and tools they need to birth as they were meant. I am also there to help families embark on a journey of a healthy and mindful pregnancy. I teach the benefits of being prepared for your optimal birth long before setting foot into the birthing space. And I help partners connect deeply during the pregnancy. The most important person in the room with the birthing mother is their partner, as only they can bring the magic of love and deep connection into the birthing space. I teach partners how to support the mother during pregnancy and labor, so that they can take the place that they need to when the time comes. I am blessed to have such an amazing calling and look forward to helping your family start a new chapter in your lives!