Healing With Spirit

Healing With Spirit Offers Spiritually Based Integrative Holistic Health Enrichment Services, Classes, Retreats, Groups since 2006.

Laura's an experienced multi-generational multi-disciplinary healer & intuitive, speaker, author, sacred activist, podcast host, medicine woman In 2022, Healing With Spirit moved to a new location and opened as a collaborative space located in Hingham, MA where private sessions, classes, events, and workshops are held by seasoned, experienced professionals. The incredible new space is available for day rentals as well for folks seeking a meeting space, a place to host an event, studio for photographers, and more. Our overall mission is to help illuminate your soul, guide you on your path, remove toxicity and restore wholeness. The founder, Laura Joseph, is a published author, experienced multi-generational healer & intuitive, speaker, podcaster, seeker, spiritual teacher and mentor, Jikiden Reiki® Shihan (teacher), social justice warrior, and a survivor of domestic violence and sexual assault. She helps folks who suffer from a history of chronic illness, cancer, trauma, and/or abuse to address root issues, transform pain, bridge science, research and the practical magic so that they can experience sustainable healing and wholeness by rediscovering the body's ability to heal itself and the power that lies within so that they can become their own superhero. She offers private sessions, classes, retreats and events:
Jikiden Reiki ~ Meditation ~ Spiritual Mediumship ~ Spiritual Guidance & Mentorship ~ End of Life Spiritual Care ~ Holistic Health ~ Healing Root Issues ~ Numerology ~ Tarot Readings~ Vibrational Healing ~ Pet Reiki ~ Guest Appearances ~ Groups ~ Retreats

Laura is also available for private and public events including speaking opportunities.

Thank you Franki Henriques  for a fantastic Chakradance class held at the Healing With Spirit Studio in Hingham, MA toda...
02/22/2026

Thank you Franki Henriques for a fantastic Chakradance class held at the Healing With Spirit Studio in Hingham, MA today! (Missed Franki in the pic 😞) Just in time before the incoming blizzard ❄️

During our heart chakra focus, I saw myself moving like giant kelp in the deep ocean … rooted, flexible, oxygenated and nourished.

Later in the journey, a white eagle flew from the sun/heavens and landed on my arm bringing in messages around clarity, purification, wisdom and sovereignty.

Other guides appeared too:
a white deer, embodying grounded strength, adaptability, and relational care for family and community, and a white raccoon, representing cleverness and survival.

Movement revealed inner resources, resilience, and the ability to witness and navigate chaotic, fiery change with an open heart.

We’re excited to share that a series of classes is coming soon! I can’t wait to explore this journey together with Franki 💚

Be sure to get on our email list for announcements and updates. Links in bio or visit our Linktree: https://linktr.ee/HealingWithSpirit
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With care,
Laura Bonetzky-Gaffney

Author | Podcast Host of Triggers in Spiritual Medicine | Multi-Generational, Multi-Disciplinary Healer & Intuitive | Activist | Trauma Educator | Spiritual Teacher | Jikiden Reiki Shihan | End-of-Life Care Care

02/22/2026

We had a couple last minute cancelations for today's Intro to Chakradance with Franki at 2pm.

Text Laura at 857-880-0365 if you wanna come or PM Laura Joseph

We just left volunteering Reiki at a local nursing home. Every single person we sat with today was carrying something he...
02/21/2026

We just left volunteering Reiki at a local nursing home. Every single person we sat with today was carrying something heavy.

Stress.
Frustration at losing independence.
The quiet grief of outliving friends.
The ache of not being visited.

The frailty of aging in a system that moves slowly when you’re dependent on others.

Some were withdrawn.
Some were low energy.
Some barely spoke at first.

And yet, every single one of them shifted.
By the end of their sessions, there were stories. Smiles. Eye contact. Laughter. A softness in the room that wasn’t there before.

It’s humbling to witness how powerful simple presence can be.

In a world that feels full of chaos and crisis, our elders are often carrying silent loneliness. They don’t need us to fix their lives. They need us to sit.
To listen. To care.

➡️ If you want perspective…

If you want to feel your own heart open…

Volunteer at a nursing home. Hospice. A senior center. Bereavement support.

This population needs us.

And the truth?

You’ll probably walk away changed, too.

Small acts. Real impact.

With care,
Laura Bonetzky-Gaffney

Author, Podcast Host of Triggers And Spiritual Medicine, Multi-Generational Multi-Disciplinary Healer & Intuitive, Activist, Trauma Educator, Spiritual Teacher, Jikiden Reiki Teacher, End of Life Care

We need to talk about the rise and unraveling of gurus, wellness experts, and spiritual leaders with massive followings....
02/18/2026

We need to talk about the rise and unraveling of gurus, wellness experts, and spiritual leaders with massive followings.

Over the decades, we have watched platform after platform grow big and collapse just as loudly. When it happens, survivors are often told:

“You’re just triggered.”
“You misunderstood the teaching.”
“This is spiritual warfare.”
“Don’t attack someone doing lightwork.”

Pause.

Predatory dynamics rarely begin with obvious harm. They begin with unchecked power.

They begin when charisma replaces character.

When devotion replaces discernment.

When accountability is framed as low vibration.

When harm is reframed as your lesson.

If you have survived spiritual manipulation, coercion, gaslighting, or subtle hierarchy disguised as enlightenment, nothing is wrong with you.

Many of these systems mirror classic abuse patterns. Deny. Attack. Reverse Victim and Offender. The same dynamics we see in relational abuse and even in court systems.

Spiritual language can heal.
And it can control.

The difference is power distribution.

Healthy spaces encourage questions.

Welcome feedback.
Repair harm.

Strengthen your sovereignty.
Teach tools, not dependency.

If a teacher cannot be questioned,
If a healer cannot apologize,
If a leader requires loyalty over critical thinking,
That is hierarchy, not healing.

Real spiritual work decentralizes authority

It strengthens your nervous system

It integrates shadow
It does not bypass harm

If this stirs something in you, you are not alone.
This is the work I hold space for.

Inside my women’s circles, healing groups, 1:1 sessions, Reiki & ancestral healing work, & on the Triggers in Spiritual Medicine podcast, we center discernment.

You do not need another guru

You need support that strengthens your own inner authority.

If you are ready for that kind of work, the links are in my bio.

Your sovereignty is sacred

With care,
Laura Bonetzky-Gaffney

Author, Podcast Host of Triggers And Spiritual Medicine, Multi-Generational Multi-Disciplinary Healer & Intuitive, Activist, Trauma Educator, Spiritual Teacher, Jikiden Reiki Teacher, End of Life Care

Happy Lunar New Year. We're in a powerful energetic portal of human evolution & transformation. Ya feeling it?I just ret...
02/17/2026

Happy Lunar New Year. We're in a powerful energetic portal of human evolution & transformation. Ya feeling it?

I just returned from meeting w/ my amazing friend Vikrant, who's from Nepal.

Over the last year or two, we’ve built a meaningful friendship. Today we went to one of my favorite spots ... Niveaux in Quincy, MA. We bonded over rooted honest conversations about culture, community, spirituality, & what it really means to serve in integrity.

We’ve spent a lot of time unpacking whiteness within spiritual & wellness spaces. Talking about how practices like Nada Yoga & sound healing have often been extracted, repackaged & sold w/o honoring lineage, context, or the people who carry these traditions in their bones.

I’m really honored to share that I'll be hosting a Nada Yoga Sound Healing Certification at Healing With Spirit in Hingham, MA, taught & led by Vikrant.

This is not just another training.

It'll be offered through the lived lens of someone who works directly w/ artisans in Nepal to create singing bowls. Someone rooted in the culture & tradition itself.

My role is to provide the container & space, aligned w/ my own commitment to honoring lineage & cultural integrity in spiritual practice, including my training through the Japanese lineage of Jikiden Reiki Kenkyukai.

If you feel called to sound healing
AND
you’re willing to examine the white entitlement & systemic structures that have distorted spiritual spaces
AND
you want to practice in a way that restores integrity rather than perpetuates harm
this may be for you.

We’re aiming for May 2026

If this resonates, send me a message

Let’s connect

This will be a small intimate container to ensure students recieve what they need in this training.

Ohhhhh and check out one of my favorite spots on the South Shore, Niveaux, part of Fuji Group w/ master chef Bobby Gonzalez.(Tagged)

Bringing home a nice private lunar new year ritual later.

With care,
Laura Bonetzky-Gaffney
Founder of Healing With Spirit

Author, Podcast Host of Triggers And Spiritual Medicine, Multi-Generational Multi-Disciplinary Healer & intuitive, Activist, Trauma Educator, Spiritual Teacher, Ceremonialist, Jikiden Reiki Teacher

Gathering is a form of resistance.  Upcoming Events to help you navigate these times:Weekly Thursdays7pmMeditation Group...
02/16/2026

Gathering is a form of resistance. Upcoming Events to help you navigate these times:

Weekly Thursdays
7pm
Meditation Group for Times of Crisis with Eileen Shaw

Friday, 2/20
6:30pm
Community GAME Night
RSVP REQUIRED

Sunday, 2/22
2pm
Introduction to Chakradance with Franki Henriques

Fri 2/27
Reiju Kai for Jikiden Reiki Practitioners

Monday, 3/2
6:30pm
Full Moon Vibrational Healing With Laura Bonetzky-Gaffney

Sunday 3/8
10am-5pm
Buffalo Medicine Drum Making Workshop with Janee King
ACCEPTING WAIT LIST

Wednesday 3/11
7:30pm
Virtual Women’s Support Group and Spirit Healing Circle

Sunday, 3/22
Spring Equinox Gathering
Quincy, MA

Saturday 3/28
Life as a Living Prayer with Roseanne Ramiglio

May 2026
Jikiden Reiki Training

📍Healing With Spirit
185 Lincoln St
Suite 300
Hingham MA

www.LauraHealingWithSpirit.com/events

02/13/2026

How to Disarm DARVO: What We Can Do

For those asking what we actually do next:

What I’m sharing here comes from decades of lived experience, formal trauma training, and years navigating family court sanctioned abuse systems from the inside.

This is not theory for me.

Here’s how we can respond:

1️⃣ Learn to spot it.

Look for:
• Immediate denial of harm
• Attacks on the credibility of the person raising concern
• Shifting focus away from the original issue
• Portraying the powerful person as the true victim
• Emotional indignation used to distract from facts

2️⃣ Regulate yourself.

DARVO is designed to activate you. Confusion and outrage are part of the strategy. When we become reactive, we’re easier to manipulate.

3️⃣ Name the pattern calmly.

“This sounds like denial.”
“This feels like reversing victim and offender.”
“We’re moving away from the original issue.”

Calm pattern recognition is powerful.

4️⃣ Do not mirror the tactic.

Do not counter-attack character with character.
Do not smear.
Do not dehumanize.

Replicating the dynamic strengthens it.

5️⃣ Support those targeted.

Reach out privately.
Affirm publicly when appropriate.
Fund survivor-led organizations.
Build informed communities.

6️⃣ Build micro safe spaces.

Not everyone is called to public advocacy.

But everyone can refuse to normalize inversion in their home, workplace, spiritual community, or friend circle.

Cultural change starts relationally.

You don’t disarm DARVO by becoming louder than it.
You disarm it by becoming steadier than it.

If these steps resonate or feel helpful, please share directly. Sharing from the page helps sustain the advocacy, education, & labor behind it.

I appreciate you helping keep the work rooted and resourced.

With care,
Laura Bonetzky-Gaffney

Author, Podcast Host of Triggers And Spiritual Medicine, Multi-Generational Multi-Disciplinary Healer & intuitive, Activist, Trauma Educator, Spiritual Teacher

https://linktr.ee/HealingWithSpirit

The energies in the coming days are NO joke and those consciously or unconsciously holding up systems of oppression & to...
02/13/2026

The energies in the coming days are NO joke and those consciously or unconsciously holding up systems of oppression & toxic capitalism especially in the spiritual wellness spaces will be faced with some BIG reckoning.

Below is .

Booking 1:1 and group readings. Openings available next week.

BOOK HERE🔗 https://HealingWithSpirit.as.me/

LEARN MORE HERE 🔗 www.LauraHealingWithSpirit.com

Dearest soul, if you are feeling this, stop  moment.  Feel your breath. Open your mouth. Stretch it. Sing. Scream. Cry. ...
02/12/2026

Dearest soul, if you are feeling this, stop moment. Feel your breath. Open your mouth. Stretch it. Sing. Scream. Cry. Allow the sound to move through you and out of the body.

I'll be posting on the Healing Trauma Through Spirit page with steps to take and "what now" soon.

This affects me too and a system I've fought against on behalf of survivors and my children for over 20yrs

If you are watching the hearings, you may be noticing something that those of us trained in domestic violence dynamics, coercive control & family court sanctioned abuse recognize almost immediately.

What you’re witnessing is a textbook example of DARVO.
Deny.
Attack.
Reverse Victim & Offender.

It’s a strategy used by abusers & systems alike.

First, deny harm. Then attack the credibility, character, or motives of the person raising concern. Finally, position oneself as the real victim while casting the harmed party as the aggressor.

When spending years in the trenches of dv advocacy, especially navigating the family court system, this pattern becomes unmistakable. It’s not dramatic. It’s procedural. It’s polished. It often sounds calm, reasonable, even authoritative.

And that’s what makes it so dangerous.

For those of us who have worked with survivors whose lived realities were dismissed, distorted, or weaponized against them in courtrooms, watching this dynamic play out on a national stage is not just political. It’s visceral.

I’m noticing how activated I feel.

Because what I’m seeing mirrors the very machinery I’ve spent 22yrs fighting against. The same tactics that silence survivors. The same inversions that protect power. The same strategic reframing that turns harm into accusation & accountability into persecution.

This isn’t about partisan politics for me. It’s pattern recognition.

It’s about understanding how abuse of power operates, whether in a home, a courtroom, or a congressional hearing.

And if you feel unsettled watching it, that may NOT be because you’re too sensitive. It may be because your nervous system recognizes something your mind is still trying to process.

For those trained to see it, you can’t unsee it.

And for those who haven’t yet learned the pattern, this may be an opportunity to get curious about how DARVO functions, not just interpersonally, but institutionally.

This is why trauma education matters.
This is why survivor advocacy matters.
This is why we keep speaking.

Even when it’s exhausting
Even when it’s triggering
Even when the beast looks bigger than ever
Especially then

Power to the survivors

with care,
Laura

02/10/2026

Valentine's Day Gift Ideas that stretch your dollar, support our Sacred Activist work, and make an impact.

The CALM teas, Soul tshirts & Mugs, books, sprays artwork are created by me.

Many items are local made from other artists or farms.

Some items were purchased directly from Indigenous tribes to support their causes and rights to exist in the world in the Yukatan and Colombia.

Also available is gift certificates for classes, workshops, 1:1 services.

Optional mailing to folks in USA at this time.

I am here today, Tuesday 2/10 til 7:30pm or message me for a time to come by. Virtual shopping appts also available.

Healing With Spirit
Hingham MA

Thank you for supporting small woman owned businesses that strive to make an impact in the world.

With care,
Laura

I have an invitation for you but first, i need to express some real life things. Lately, I’ve been sitting with a lot of...
02/09/2026

I have an invitation for you but first, i need to express some real life things. Lately, I’ve been sitting with a lot of grief.

Watching so many people, especially childhood friends and those in spiritual communities, elevate hate, normalize harm to children, align with divisive and racist ideologies, and participate in dehumanization has been devastating.

The sheer volume of harmful behavior right now feels overwhelming.

Especially when all I’ve ever worked toward, for over five decades, is healing root causes. In animals. In plants. In people. In systems.

This has been a lonely, deeply initiatory path.

And while I believe everything I’ve lived and survived prepared me for these times, there are days I still wonder. Will people lean in? Or will the patterns of victim blaming and elevating harm continue?

What steadies me are the small but real pockets of ethical, rooted community. Spaces of integrity, healing, sacred activism, and care. Living medicine.

If you’re grieving too, questioning how to stay human in inhumane times, or longing for real healing spaces, you’re not alone.

✨ This is the work I quietly tend through 1:1 support, community, teaching, healing, and sacred activism.

✨ The door is open.

➡️ If you feel called, join us this Wednesday, 2/11 at 7:30 pm EST on Zoom for our women’s virtual support group and healing circle.

With care,
Laura

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Our Story

I did not choose this path. It chose me. You must be thinking, WHAT? Yes, I was involved in an abusive relationship at the time. When I finally had the courage to leave in 2005, the abuses escalated, I began to see a divide within myself. What I was receiving through the shelters and American health care system was not only broken, but amplified and used against me in court with my abuser when I sought help and protections.

As like many stories in the #metoo movement, I was heavily retaliated against by the system for seeking justice not only for my case but for 20 other families associated with one judge who had a reputation for punishing survivors of abuse if allegations of abuse surfaced before him.

That led me down a spiritual path to healing my own complex PTSD, which by the way I did not have until the courts were allowed to be used to continue the patterns of abuse.

How to give a brief synopsis without carrying on? Hmmmm. Well, to be short, my story is like a Michael Creighton novel, because what I experienced was too surreal and unimaginable.