Healing Trauma Through Spirit

Healing Trauma Through Spirit Offering healing for trauma associated with abuse through spiritually based practices and therapies since 2006.

Offering speaking, guest appearances, workshops and classes for individuals, groups, or organizations. I am a published author, experienced multi-generational healer & intuitive, speaker, podcaster, seeker, spiritual teacher, Jikiden Reiki® Shihan (teacher), social justice warrior, and a survivor of domestic violence and sexual assault. I help folks who suffer from a history of chronic illness, cancer, trauma, and/or abuse to address root issues, transform pain, bridge science, research and the practical magic so that they can experience sustainable healing and wholeness by rediscovering the body's ability to heal itself and the power that lies within so that they can become their own superhero. Why me:
I am passionate about addressing root issues that plague our society and finding sustainable solutions. This also means in order to do this, we must be willing to face and address hard truths. I provide a welcoming inviting safe space to do your what you know how to best. I am passionate about building a community of women who support each other's growth and business especially on the south shore in this geographic location. I am a thought leader in addressing the intersectionality of various women's and Femme issues. I am a best-selling collaborative author of "Feisty: Dangerously Amazing Women Using Their Voices to Make an Impact"

I am active in social justice issues surrounding issues such as domestic violence, restorative justice, sexual trauma, and litigation abuse in custody cases of victims of abuse and more. I have actively lobbied on at least 5 bills in MA that impact survivors of abuse, access to holistic treatments, regulatory bills, and other bills impacting women especially incarcerated women.

11/16/2025

November is family court awareness month. I was recently invited to be interviewed on the Healing Doesn't Have to Be Heavy Podcast to talk about my experience

leaving a domestic abuse relationship,

the family court challenges,

losing everything including my children to never see again,

incarceration while being denied a lawyer,

how to still heal through it all

Sharing a four-part trauma sensitive process to healing

Show Notes:

Host Angie Berrett sits down with Laura Bonetzky-Gaffney, a multi-generational healer, intuitive, and survivor whose story sheds light on the intersection of trauma, justice, and resilience.

Laura opens up about her journey through domestic violence, court-sanctioned abuse, and a decades-long fight to reclaim her freedom after enduring corruption within the family court system.

From being silenced in marriage to finding her voice as an advocate and author, Laura shares what it means to transform pain into purpose — and how the power of awareness, mindfulness, and community can be pathways to healing.

Together, Angie and Laura unpack the concept of “power protecting power,” the complexity of coping mechanisms, and the process of learning to trust your body and spirit again.

Laura also introduces a practical, trauma-informed tool — the “Stop, Pause, Breathe, What’s the Action Step” framework — to help survivors ground themselves in moments of overwhelm and reconnect to their inner wisdom.

This episode is a powerful reminder that healing doesn’t happen in a straight line — and that sometimes, the smallest steps toward awareness are the most transformative.

Links to Tune In:

Buzzsprout: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2466782/episodes/18159967

YouTube: https://youtu.be/swlw2udweX8

Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/healing-doesnt-have-to-be-heavy/id1808706106

Spotify: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/healing-doesnt-have-to-be-heavy/id1808706106

11/14/2025

November is Family Court Awareness Month ✨

I’m sharing a piece of my story to shed light on the deep systemic failures that continue to harm survivors and children every single day.

Between 2007 and 2012, my ex-partner was found guilty by the third judge in my case of violating 95% of all court orders — yet every contempt filing I made was denied.

Instead of accountability, the system rewarded his violations:
• Judge Lisa Roberts granted him full custody, limited me to supervised visits, and ordered me to pay $20,000 more.
• Judge Michael Livingstone granted ex parte custody based on false testimony — while there were open contempt hearings for child support and visitation violations. He was later removed by the FBI for corruption.
• Judge James Menno, known for anti-DV rulings, approved nearly 100% of my abuser’s motions while denying over 70% of mine, before recusing himself for bias.

Judge Roberts then refused to enforce court orders, allowing years of ongoing violations without recourse — and eventually rewarded him again.

Because of this, my three daughters grew up without their mother or maternal family, alienated since September 7, 2007.

My youngest — just 4 years old at the time — was told I wasn’t her real mother. The court knew. They did nothing.

He even testified that his goal was to erase me and my family from our daughters’ lives.
And the court rewarded him.

Make this make sense.

This is why Family Court Awareness Month exists — to expose how the system protects abusers, silences survivors, and fails the children it claims to serve.

We must demand accountability.
We must protect children.
We must reform family court.

I will always stand with the victim, not the oppressor, abuser, ra**st, or trafficker.I grieve daily that millions of Am...
11/13/2025

I will always stand with the victim, not the oppressor, abuser, ra**st, or trafficker.

I grieve daily that millions of Americans don’t feel the same.

For those of us who know what it takes to be heard, believed, and supported, only to face threats from bystanders who side with abusers and the oppressor, the pain runs DEEP that can last for generations to come.

It breaks me even more to witness how many who claim to “do the work” ... healers, thera**sts, coaches, lightworkers, and so-called trauma-informed practitioners ... turn away from hard truths, protect abusers, protect oppressive systems they PROFIT from, or dismantle survivors in the name of “love and light.”

They uphold systems of oppression:
• patriarchy,
• racism,
• colonizer mindsets,
• church indoctrination,
• and white supremacy culture.

Many don’t just fail to see the harm, they dig in, defend their stance, and don’t even recognize the systems they’re protecting.

Silence is complicity.

Neutrality protects the abuser.

⚠️ Accountability is desperately lacking ⚠️

Take a stand today:
🗳 Get involved in local politics. Know your legislators, vote, show up.

✊ Support progressive leaders fighting for justice, safety, and equity.

📚 Educate yourself & fight misinformation. Follow credible sources, cross-check facts.

🤝 Engage in your community. Join advocacy groups, volunteer, donate.

🗣 Speak up. Challenge harmful narratives, hold people accountable.

💛 Stop enabling harm. Silence, denial, or “love and light” bypasses allow abusers to thrive.

Real change requires participation.

Every one of us has a role.

Choose it consciously.

Choose it courageously.

Choose it now.

The future for our children, daughters and and granddaughters depend upon what actions we take NOW. If not now, when?

Can we say "we told you so"
11/13/2025

Can we say "we told you so"

Jeffrey Epstein and Donald Trump spent Thanksgiving together. In 2017. While Trump was President of the United States.
That’s not a rumor — that’s from the newly released emails obtained by House Democrats this week from Epstein’s estate. One email chain, dated November 23, 2017 — Thanksgiving Day — lists the names of guests Epstein expected to see that weekend. Among them: “david fizel, hanson, trump.”

At that time, Trump was at Mar-a-Lago, his private Florida club and the same place where Epstein’s trafficking ring first recruited underage girls.

Let that sit for a second.

For years, Trump claimed he “banned” Epstein from Mar-a-Lago decades ago. But these emails — alongside thousands of other documents — tell a different story. Epstein and Trump were still FRIENDS while Trump occupied the White House.
And there’s more.

In a 2011 message to Ghislaine Maxwell, Epstein wrote that a young woman “didn’t want to come early to find Trump in your house.”

In another, Epstein said: “I have met some very bad people. None as bad as Trump. Not one decent cell in his body.”

If that’s the assessment of a serial p**o ra**st, it’s hard to imagine how dark this might get.

The public deserves answers about why a sitting president was having Thanksgiving with a convicted s*x trafficker… Although, anyone with half a brain can connect the dots.

If the emails are genuine — and no one’s denying they are — then we’re looking at direct contradictions of Trump’s own public statements, and possibly, the moral collapse of an entire political culture. .

This moment demands more than outrage. It demands accountability.
No more cover-ups. No more “hoax” talk. No more pretending this is partisan.
Because when a predator’s network reaches the Oval Office, it’s not politics anymore — it’s a national reckoning.

And history won’t forget who tried to look away.

11/13/2025

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11/13/2025

As collective tensions rise, we’re witnessing the outer world mirror the inner cosmic shifts above.

Recent political victories wasn’t just political.

It was energetic.

Astrologically, this is the embodiment of Pluto in Aquarius and Saturn–Neptune in Pisces—the dismantling of outdated power, collective awakening, and the rebuilding of systems that actually serve humanity.

As we move toward Mercury Retrograde and through the emotional charge of the holidays, many are feeling the intensity of this transformation ... fear, uncertainty, and exhaustion. But this moment calls for grounding, courage, and discernment, not retreat.

In this episode, I reunite with astrologer and spiritual teacher Hilary Harley for a deeply cosmic yet practical conversation on navigating this pivotal season.

We explore:
✨ The Saturn–Neptune and Pluto transits reshaping humanity
🔥 How to meet fear and instability with awareness, not avoidance
🌑 Samhain season and the rise of ancestral and feminine wisdom
🌍 Collective awakening, sustainability, and rebuilding community
💫 Working with darkness as fertile ground for rebirth

I open with a Samhain season prayer, honoring the ancestors and invoking the healed and whole grandmothers reminding us that these cycles were foretold, and we were born for these times.

Let this episode remind you: even when the world shakes, your center is sacred.

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If You Can Heal Trauma, You Can Heal Anything

Laura did not choose this business. It chose her. You must be thinking, WHAT? Yes. The Universe has a way to shift our focus and life. She has learned to bless her junk in order to empower herself and others.

A Little Back Story

She was involved in an abusive relationship at the time. When she finally had the courage to leave in 2005, the abuses escalated, she began to see a divide within herself. What she was receiving through the shelters and American health care system was not only broken, but amplified and used it against her in court with her abuser when she sought help.