03/05/2026
Doing as many Kegels as possible isn’t always the answer. 🚫
When done correctly, a Kegel should feel like you’re closing the door and lifting the floor — gently lifting the pelvic floor muscles rather than gripping or pulling hard from the back.
If you feel excessive pulling near the tailbone or back of the pelvic floor, you may be dealing with pelvic floor dysfunction rather than weakness.
Common symptoms of pelvic floor dysfunction can include:�• Constipation or difficulty with bowel movements�• Pain with intercourse�• Urinary urgency or frequency�• Leaking urine with exercise, coughing, or sneezing�• Pelvic pain or tailbone pain�• Difficulty fully relaxing the pelvic floor
For many people, the pelvic floor actually needs better coordination and relaxation — not more squeezing.
A pelvic floor physical therapist can evaluate how your pelvic floor muscles are functioning and help you learn the right way to train them.