04/07/2026
Too Worked Up to Talk? A Timeout Plan for Couples đ
Many couples get stuck in the same conflict cycle because emotions escalate to the point where neither person can think clearly. In those moments, taking a timeout can be a healthy way to regulate and return to the conversation with more calm and respect.
In this video, David Teel, ALC, shares 3 key parts of a healthy timeout:
Communicate why you need the break and what it will look like
Be specific about when youâll resume (day + time)
Follow through so your partner knows the break isnât indefinite
A timeout isnât meant to avoid the conversation. Itâs not stonewalling. Itâs a strategy that protects the relationship and the conversationâwhen you come back like you said you would.
đĽ Watch the video for practical guidance and language you can use.
If youâd like help building a timeout plan as a couple, Sparrow Counseling would love to help.