01/10/2024
Depending on anything or anyone but our relationships with Jesus for our emotional healing is simply an ineffective numbing device. Whether it is food, drugs, alcohol, s*x, shopping, or any other vice, it will only act as a temporary fix to a long-term consequence. As Stephen Arterburn states in his book, Healing is a Choice, "We become hooked on the numbing device during the process of trying to return to the state of numbness. That dependency causes additional consequences and pain, and our lives spin helplessly out of control until we come to the conclusion that there is only one way out. We must finally feel the emotions we dreaded. We must reenter the pain, resolve it, and then move on with our lives, connected to others, feeling the reality of what we are experiencing right now, no matter how uncomfortable it is."