01/21/2026
When HA develops from intentional food restriction and/or excess exercise, the solution of “eating more and exercising less” is short-sighted at best.
Undereating and over-exercise aren’t at the root, dare I say aren’t the root cause, of developing HA…
They’re ineffective solutions to something deeper.
Sure, down-regulation of the HPO axis and resultant missing periods is in large part due to low energy availability typically driven by these behaviors.
But, what many conventional approaches fail to recognize is undereating and over-exercise are often protective strategies adapted in response to perceived threat.
At some point, you may have learned…
Your worth is tied to your appearance.
Thinness + perfection=Safety, love, approval.
Control over food + movement=Control over life.
Existing in a larger body = unsafe.
Your nervous system adapted to keep you safe–by controlling food and movement.
By controlling your body.
The protective behaviors adapted, and resultant physiological stress, contributed to the manifestation of HA.
These behaviors are serving you in some way. They are providing a false sense of safety.
Removing them without recognizing the ways in which they are serving you has the potential to send messages of danger/threat and extreme overwhelm, missing the opportunity for deeper healing and addressing the root.
Opportunities for explorationđź“”
Do I believe I am inherently enough, regardless of my body weight/shape/size?
Am I seeking external validation to feel worthy?
What do I fear will happen if I release control?
What other areas of my life do I feel out of control?
Where/when did I learn that a smaller body is safer?
What did younger me need to hear? To feel? To see?
Your healing is not just about food and exercise–it’s about exploring the layers, the imprints, beneath your *relationship* to food + exercise.
Remembering who you were before you felt unsafe to be her.
Nourishing your body is a key step, and often prerequisite to the deeper work…but healing your *relationship with your body* is what leads to true recovery.
The magic lies in shifting from fear-based restriction to embodied safety.
Rooting for you, always🌻 Em