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12/19/2025

We tend to think of narcissism as being full of oneself: self-obsessed, inflated, intoxicated by importance.

But clinically, narcissism is not a fullness of self.

It is the absence of one.

When a person has not developed a solid sense of identity, or has not been loved through the painful seasons of their life, they begin to look outside themselves to prop themselves up. This may take the form of power, admiration, status, or a persistent need for validation. Because they do not know who they are, they ask the outside world and their relationships to supply what feels missing inside.

This is why narcissism often appears excessive or demanding. At its core is a fear of insignificance, of weakness being seen and humiliated. For many, that exposure already happened once. The pain they have not addressed gets transmitted to others. Control and intimidation become ways to avoid collapse.

Understanding this does not excuse harm.

But it does help us name what we are actually dealing with.

Narcissism is not random. To outgrow it, our work is to identify earliest humiliations and connect the dots to how that shapes how we show up in the world the way we do. While not exclusively a book on personality disorders, Desire offers guidance for anyone seeking a more authentic, integrated and soulful identity.

12/19/2025

New Moon in Sagittarius- Radical Honesty, You Are the Lineage Breaker, Higher Inspiration + Enlightenment

On December 19/20th, we have the beautiful and bright New Moon at 28 degrees of Sagittarius. New Moons are a time to start over, begin anew and wipe the slate clean. They bring clarity and inspiration. Sagittarius, the 9th zodiac sign deals with honesty, bluntness, inspiration, wisdom, humor and a sense of adventure.

With this last new moon of the year, we will be encouraged to be brave and to look from the macro view vs. our micro reality. New pursuits that are rooted in authenticity and courage call our heart. It is time to step out of the box of conformity and to invest in something BIGGER, BRIGHTER and more ALIGNED.

The New Moon in Sagittarius is here to bring forth BIG and destined truth bombs. As a Sagittarius rising myself, I can tell you we like the truth and at times are brutal around how we deliver our deepest intentions. This New Moon wants you to get very clear and to be ruthlessly honest and authentic. No hiding behind pretenses or facades. It is time to speak up and to proclaim your desires from a place of liberation and freedom. As the saying goes, "the truth will set you free" will be common now. Sagittarius energy is ALIVE and INSPIRED. It is time to begin a vision quest within yourself and externally within your life. Higher education, travel and adventures that light your soul on FIRE are the jam of this lunation.

Getting out of your comfort zone is also the flavor. Promise yourself that you will take one new BIG risk over the course of the next 2 weeks. Notice what happens when you take that risk. You might notice that you didn't die. The aliveness and authenticity to go beyond your fears brought forth an essense of renewed vitality and POWER. Owning your power creates a space of alignment and flow. Be BOLD and DARING.

The New Moon in Sagittarius will also be making a beautiful (albeit loose, 0 degree aspect) conjunction to Venus, the planet of beauty, comfort and joy who is also in the sign of Sagittarius. The New Moon in an embrace with Venus will prompt these new risks and adventures to be yielded by our passions and sense of love and excitement. Many amazing philosophical works of art could be created during this time. We will be in play mode and our artistic aesthetic will be enhanced. Learning new ways to create and cultivate beauty will be the focus. This energy encourages us to pursue a passion project where we can learn, explore and grow. Expressing our fiery desires will be common and an air of inspiration will be felt.

For anyone with their Sun, Moon or Ascendant sign on or close to 28 degrees of Sagittarius or the other mutable signs of Gemini, Virgo or Pisces will be most impacted by this lucky New Moon. Expect fresh and FIERY new situations and people to enter into your life. BIG and EXPANSIVE energy will be felt especially within your physical body, family/home, relationships and career. A lucky streak will find you when you least expect it. For everyone else, check where 28 degrees of Sagittarius falls in your natal chart to see where these fortunate and blessed events will happen for you.

The New Moon in Sagittarius is here to offer a balm of support and help from the most high. During this holiday season, the universe is blessing all of us with a new realm of freedom, abundance and wisdom. It is time to say goodbye to people, places and situations that don't enhance our sense of freedom and authenticity. It is time to say hello to new adventures that light our soul on fire and demand that we get bigger than we have ever been before. Inspiration that comes from a holy place within our soul is the elixir of this beautiful new moon. We only have this one life. What do you want to reach for and create? This will be a big question during the next couple of weeks. The New Moon in Sagittarius is here to offer us new inspirations that create growth and wisdom, experiences with travel that ignite our passions and wisdom that is divine and magical.

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In the extended sign horoscopes on Patreon, I provide a special guidance and direction for each zodiac sign on what to focus on for this New Moon. All channeled from spirit.
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12/19/2025

♐️New Moon in Sagittarius 28°! Dec 19th.
The final lunation of 2025! GROUNDED DREAMS.

✨️Great for REALISTIC manifestation of your vision for 2026!

♐️DREAM BIG but know your limits!
🪐 - money, time, health limitations!

♐️BELIVE IN YOUR VISION but be ready to wait!
🪐 - good things take time!

♐️KEEP THE FAITH but also work hard!
🪐 - you need to build your future yourself!

🌙NEW MOON = new intentions. Manifesting the new. Quiet rest, big dreams, energy reset.

♐️SAGITTARIUS (New Moon themes)

1. Expansion, travel, exploring the world, big dreams, abundance, education.

2. The themes of your individual Saggitarius house & placements (see your chart)

28° - Cancer degree. For many, the new intention will be related to home, family, housing, healing, motherhood & mother.

🌙ASPECTS TO NEW MOON:

♓️SATURN 25°= grounding your vision. Blocking and postponing the new chapter til you are ready to expand. Include in your new chapter: discipline, hard work, patience, boundaries, restrictions of reality and accountability - to really make your expansion possible. Apply your vision to what's really possible!

♓️NEPTUNE 29° = final closure of old cycles in Pisces. Culmination. Destruction of what's toxic so you can move forward (addictions, passive approach to life, dreaming without doing, escaping from responsibilities and healing, neglecting mental health issues, closure of toxic relationships and self-sacrifice tendencies, no more "la la land")

DISPOSITOR:

♋️JUPITER rx 22° = ruler of Saggitarius. Now moving backwards and squaring Chiron so ⚠️expansion is slowed down! There is a need to heal the past and resolve conflicts before your full expansion can start. Do your best to improve your confidence and courage to LEAD & to do things ALONE (Aries). Give yourself time til ⚠️MARCH 11 when JUPITER will start to MOVE FORWARD at 15° Cancer and so the intentions of this New Moon will be easier to manifest in reality. Matters of housing, family, moving houses, motherhood will be less difficult.

But for now....
WAIT A FEW MORE WEEKS.
Rest. Heal. Detox. Prepare. Close. Plan.
This New Moon NEEDS TIME TO MANIFEST.

⚠️THIS IS NOT THE TIME TO START YET

Now we are in the ENDING PHASE of previous cycles.

New stories have to wait.
Accept natural cycles.

SATURN, NEPTUNE, URANUS are closing old long term stories now.

The new energy will gradually start to activate new chapters later in 2026:

⚠️Jan 26 (Neptune enters Aries)
⚠️February 14 (Saturn enters Aries)
⚠️March 12 (Jupiter direct)
⚠️April 26 (Uranus enters Gemini)

The new is promised in 2026! And it will be a fast moving year!

SLOW DOWN & BE PATIENT.

🪐But for now, Saturn square this New Moon!
Reduce your speed. Be patient.
Be mature. Be grounded.

🪐Be ready to dream big but also to do bigger!
Be ready for long term commitment, for systematic work, for dealing with formalities, for having responsibilities and for dealing with obstacles on the way to your dream.

🪐May Saturn help you to realize what in your fantasy is truly possible to be turned into reality.

SAG 28° -> here is that in your chart?
Which house? Do you feel Saturnian pressure towards this area of life?

Jolanta, Soulight Space

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12/07/2025

When we love someone but they behave in ways that are painful, we compassionate folks (sometimes called codependent or people-pleasers) often bend over backwards to try to fix it.

After all, we are naturally responsible people, able to solve problems (plus caring and empathetic, too)!

Only…we can’t seem to make this relationship work. 😮‍💨

1. They keep behaving in ways that hurt, and
2. We keep trying to solve their behavior, and
3. Round and ‘round it goes. 😵‍💫

It’s a whole-ass dynamic. And we pay dearly for it.

💔 Our emotional health is in tatters.
💔 Our energy is sapped.
💔 Our self-confidence is shot.

So what do we do?
I’d love to help you.

Because there is hope, and it doesn’t have to be this way.

They may or may not ever change.
But you can.

That’s a boundary.

❤️
Molly
Therapist & Boundaries Guide

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12/06/2025

12/04/2025

If you grew up being the emotional support for a parent, there is a good chance you learned relationships in reverse. You were trained to scan the room for other people’s feelings before you ever checked in with your own. Your worth slowly became tied to how calm you could keep everyone else, instead of how safe and cared for you felt.

As a child, you did not get to ask, “Do I feel safe with this person?” You learned to ask, “What do they need from me so they do not fall apart?” and “How can I keep things from getting worse?” That survival role can follow you into adulthood long after you have left that house.

So now you might feel deeply bonded to people who have never truly made space for you. You feel attached because you are busy taking care of their moods, managing their crises, and understanding their story. Meanwhile, they know very little about what it is like to be you. The relationship feels intense, but your needs are quietly pushed to the side.

This is not a sign that you are broken in relationships. It is evidence that you adapted to an environment where love and safety were tied to how well you could hold other people together. Your nervous system learned that staying close to unstable people was safer than risking their anger, distance, or collapse.

Healing this pattern starts with asking different questions. Instead of “How do I keep this person okay?”, begin to ask “Do I feel emotionally safe here?”, “Do my feelings matter in this relationship?”, and “Do they make room for my needs, or only for my support?” At first, those questions can feel selfish or even wrong, especially if no one ever modeled that for you.

You are allowed to want relationships where you are more than the caretaker. You are allowed to feel uneasy when someone expects your constant emotional labour but offers very little back. You are allowed to step back from dynamics that only feel close when you are rescuing, soothing, or fixing.

If this resonates, start small. Notice which relationships leave you drained. Notice which ones leave you feeling steadier. Practice sharing one honest feeling instead of automatically saying “it’s fine.” These tiny shifts are how you begin to relearn love the right way around, where your safety and needs matter just as much as anyone else’s.

You are allowed to want relationships where you are more.

- Nadia Addesi

12/04/2025

Super Full Moon in Gemini- We Are Each Other's Mirror, Chatty Times, Higher Perspectives That Lead to Breakthroughs

On December 4th/5th, we have the flirty and eloquent Super Full Moon at 13 degrees of Gemini. Super Full Moons bring everything to the surface and are deeply emotional. They represent endings, culminations and manifestations. Gemini, the 3rd zodiac sign, deals with communication, curiosity, childlike play, dexterity and malleability.

This is the last of 3 Super Full Moons of 2025. We have been going through major upgrades with these powerful lunations. This is the time to now end old cycles of complacency around our thinking and ability to communicate. We can't live in old paradigms. The universe is ready to show us how related we truly are with one another. Surrender to one another not just through the mind but from the heart is the theme of this intellectual lunation.

The Full Moon in Gemini is here to offer us a chance to voice our mind and to expand our awareness. With Mercury, the ruler of Gemini, now in direct motion, we are ready to communicate from a place of deep understanding + discovery. No other sign is as curious and information crazy as a Gemini. These folks crave mental stimulation with every cell of their being. This Full Moon wants us to open up and to learn new things from a place of innocence and fascination. It is time to communicate in a way we have never done before. Major confessions and chatty times are ahead. We will be encouraged to be open and flexible. Lightness within the mental realms is favored. Getting out of our comfort zone and flirting with life's party is the vibe of this playful full moon.

For those with their Sun, Moon or Ascendant signs on or close to 13 degrees of Gemini or the other mutable signs of Virgo, Sagittarius or Pisces, will be most impacted by this Full Moon. Expect major and destined manifestations in the bigger areas of your life such as your physical health, home/family, relationships and career. You will need to express yourself in a new way and that might be slightly confronting. Learning and growing with a new awareness will be big themes at this time. For everyone else, check where 13 degrees of Gemini falls in your natal chart to see where these communicative vibes of fun and learning will occur for you.

The Super Full Moon in Gemini is here to open our mind and soul to new possibilities of thinking and understanding. We will need to communicate some deep truths at this time. It is important to understand that "you are a reflection of me and I am a reflection of you." You can only love someone at the level that you love your own self. Major realizations on how we have been limiting our self expression due to fear of rejection and abandonment could come up now. If this happens, surrender and allow yourself the space and grace of perspective. Major confessions and the courage to speak up from a place of peace and progress are possible now. The Super Full Moon in Gemini wants us to remember our innocence and the innocence of others. We are not here to compete with one another. We are here to support and uplift others in the awareness of our interconnectedness. She is here to offer us insightful and enlivening communication, playfulness in a world of seriousness and the ability to remain flexible and curious within these unknown spaces.

To access my special extended sign horoscopes for this powerful Full Moon in Gemini, please join me over on my Patreon page: https://www.patreon.com/astromomma

In the extended sign horoscopes on Patreon, I provide a special guidance and direction for each zodiac sign on what to focus on for this Full Moon. All channeled from spirit.

Your support on Patreon allows Astromomma to stay in business, especially during these rocky times we are in atm. Thank you for supporting my small business, I am forever grateful!

P.S.- Personal readings are still available! This is a great time to check out your upcoming year of 2026, which will be an even MORE active year than 2025. Order your personal reading here: https://www.astromomma.com/pages/readings

© Astromomma, 2025

Image: Zodiac Art by Amye

12/02/2025

The final full moon of 2025, taking with it all that no longer serves us, what isn’t meant to travel with us into the future, all that is complete. All that you give to it. Let yourself, let go.

11/27/2025

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