09/27/2025
Venturing on a new trail today, I was guided to share the following….
How often in life do we behave a certain way or say certain things to elicit a desired response / reaction from another person or group? 🤓
We learn at a very young age certain actions sparks certain responses from others; hence the game begins.
Next, we get sucked into a reality based on other people’s thoughts, beliefs, and understanding of how things ‘should be’. Society and the news media drive our bus. Often, by the time we become young adults, we are living a life based on the belief’s others programmed us to believe.
Then one day, we wake up. Something happens in our physical reality, that makes us question one or two of those beliefs. And for those who have the courage, take the gift they’ve been given and dive into where the belief came from and ask the big question, is this valid for ME?
13 years ago, I accepted the gift, and started asking those questions.
I used to think I had to go to a doctor to get better, yeah, that got shot to pieces years ago.
I used to think I had to work hard to support myself. Now I realize I can get paid to do what I love.
I used to think I had to finish all my work, before I could play. I learned I can go play first and work later.
I used to think I had to be the best at Everything, I did. I realized somethings I just didn’t want to do at all, let alone be concerned about being good at them.
I used to think everyone had to like me, yeah, calling BS on that one as well.
I used to think the more I took on, the more others would value me, love me, look up to me. What I learned from this, is people just take advantage of your kindness and I am the one that ends up being miserable. So walk away.
You can begin to see, I wasn’t living my life, I was following a script, someone else wrote. Now, I write my own script.
I invite you today to take a few moments to look at life, and see what belief no longer feels right in life. Then, simply say. I give myself permission to Let Go.
And do it.
Let go.💜
Now share with a friend wrapped up in someone else's script... they will thank you.