11/15/2025
4 Things You Don’t Have to Explain to Anyone (ARFID Edition)
1. Your Plate:
Whether it’s all beige foods, all safe foods, or looks “different” from everyone else’s — it’s yours.
2. Your Portions:
You don’t owe anyone a bigger serving, a second helping, or an explanation.
3. Your Progress:
Progress with ARFID is slow, non-linear, and deeply personal. Tiny wins count, even if others don’t see them.
4. Your Sensory Needs:
Texture, smell, temperature, appearance — these are real, valid experiences. Not preferences.
Set your boundaries by saying:
“No food comments today, please.”
“My plate is my business.”
“Safe foods are staying on the menu.”
“No pressure. No pushing. Just connection.”
“Respect my boundaries = supporting my recovery.”