Greater Purpose Counseling, LLC

Greater Purpose Counseling, LLC We all have a 'Greater Purpose' in life than our current situation. Just like the seasons change the leaves on a tree, our situations in life change.

Our perspectives in life change. Our walk with Christ changes through the hills and valleys of life.

Small moments build secure relationships.Connection doesn’t have to be complicated. 🤍Biblical: “Be devoted to one anothe...
11/26/2025

Small moments build secure relationships.
Connection doesn’t have to be complicated. 🤍

Biblical: “Be devoted to one another in love.” —(Romans 12:10) If your statements to someone you profess to love destroys their character or self-image it is not love.

Clinical: Secure attachment grows through consistent emotional availability, warmth, and curiosity—not perfection. Demanding perfection does not help a person to become curious or grow.

Actions:
1. Call someone you are thinking of. Pick at lease 1-3 people to call every few days.
2. Ask a genuine question(s) about their day, their life, and how they feel.
3. Share a positive memory about a shared experience or something that happened to you recently.
4. End conversation with a blessing, plans to connect, or encouragement in their situation.

Tuesday's Recommendation:Memoir "Hostage" by Eli SharabiWe have all sat and watched the terror of 10/07 and the war that...
11/25/2025

Tuesday's Recommendation:
Memoir "Hostage" by Eli Sharabi

We have all sat and watched the terror of 10/07 and the war that has taken too many lives in both Israel and Gaza. Eli survived 491 days in Hamas captivity and recounts the experience.

Memoirs are one of my favorite genre's to read. This is in my top favorites because Eli openly discusses how he mentally survived living as a hostage. The human spirit to survive shows resilience and learning how to survive the unknown where everyday there is death.

A major take away was he repeats, aspects that all people have a choice. So much truth in the reality that we have a choice to live, to die, to fight, to give up, to not give up, to hate, to heal, etc. Every moment in life we have a choice.

He found a reason to keep choosing life and strategically living time and time again. May whoever reads this memoir find the fight in them to keep choosing to live.

 SAVE THE DATE: July 15-18, 2026 LADIES RETREAT in COLORADO!!! You will want to reserve your spots because space is limi...
11/25/2025



SAVE THE DATE: July 15-18, 2026 LADIES RETREAT in COLORADO!!!

You will want to reserve your spots because space is limited to 10 women!

$1,000 for the retreat and payment plans will be available.
Included in the ladies retreat:
Lodging at a house/condo
Breakfast & Dinner (lunch you are on your own while exploring)
Group therapy sessions + somatic sessions + safe sound protocol sessions
Daily guided hikes with group sessions being in the mountains

Group will start with breakfast and go out for the hike and group. While out, everyone will be encouraged to explore the local area for down time and eat local. Group will meet back at the house for the evening group session and eat dinner. Group participants will have free time to rest or explore the local are.

You take care of everyone else, it is time you slow down and take care of yourself.

Who: Adult women
Contact: Falicia Miller: fmiller@greaterpurposecounseling.com or text me

11/25/2025

I found a toy therapist!!!!

Boundaries are not rejection—they’re stewardship of your emotional and spiritual health.Biblical: Jesus modeled boundari...
11/24/2025

Boundaries are not rejection—they’re stewardship of your emotional and spiritual health.

Biblical: Jesus modeled boundaries—He withdrew, rested, said “no,” and surrounded Himself with safe people (Mark 1:35; Matthew 14:23). The bible is full of boundaries and rules for interactions with people. This does not stop because we are related to someone.

Clinical: Dysfunctional family systems often involve emotional cutoff, guilt-based communication, or lack of empathy. Boundaries protect your mental health. Many people will join together this holiday season not because they want connection but out of obligation. Many people will return home to recover from the dysfunction they endured in order to 'be with family'.

Actions:
1. Identify one unhealthy pattern (criticism, guilt trips, blame). This can be your unhealthy pattern or one that someone else does.
2. Create a simple boundary statement, a phrase response. Just because someone want's to know a detail about something sensitive does not mean you are obligated to disclose. "No thank you" and "No" are complete sentences.
3. Communicate it calmly once. Do not parrot, mind your tone, and be in control of the only thing you can - you.
4. Do not argue or get into a power struggle with anyone. Do not take the bait no matter how appealing it may be to prove a point or put someone in their place.
5. Pray for peace and strength. God may be the only aspect that keeps you grounded in the dysfunction called family gathering.

Gratitude doesn't ignore pain - it transforms how we walk through it. Biblical: "In everything give thanks; for this is ...
11/23/2025

Gratitude doesn't ignore pain - it transforms how we walk through it.

Biblical: "In everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.: (1 Thess. 5:18)

Clinical: Cognitive reappraisal helps the brain reframe difficult circumstances and increases emotional resilience. What we say in the pain will determine our ability of resilience. Ignoring the pain only keeps us in denial of true healing.

Actions:
1. Name the hard thing you are facing/experiencing.
2. Identify one way the struggle is building you.
3. Thank God for being present in the struggle.
4. Communicate with someone about the struggle you are in. Do not struggle alone because you were not created to struggle alone.

11/22/2025
Friday Funny:Adult Peer Pressure! No longer is peer pressure about the tabu things, but is the lawn cut? Are the leaves ...
11/21/2025

Friday Funny:

Adult Peer Pressure!

No longer is peer pressure about the tabu things, but is the lawn cut? Are the leaves cut or raked up? How is the floral arrangement?

Don't give into the adult peer pressure!! This is an inside joke with our neighbor. Each time she (who is retired) gets out and maintains her lawn, Tobias starts freaking out. He will stop what he is doing to go out and cut the grass, put down mulch, or rake up the leaves.

He was so excited to beat her one time, and then the rest of the leaves fell and the pattern started all over again.

Adult peer pressure looks completely different when you are a home owner!!

11/20/2025

New therapist vs seasoned therapist: bring spouse in for support

Tuesday's Recommendation:"The Absent Father Effect on Daughters, Father Desire, Father Wounds' by Susan E. SchwartzThis ...
11/18/2025

Tuesday's Recommendation:
"The Absent Father Effect on Daughters, Father Desire, Father Wounds' by Susan E. Schwartz

This is a very clinical book but worthy of listening or reading if you have an absent father or work with women who have absent fathers. This book has a perspective of Jungian analytical psychology and a lot of archetypes.

Women who grow up without some form of a secure attachment to a father tend to struggle with a variety of issues. When the one person who is to protect you abandons you, it will cause women to question their worth.

Abandonment issues from a father are a real thing. When the human father is capable of abandoning you, then why would the creator of all things not also abandon you? The disconnect from a human father often plays out in how a person processes their connection with God.

The book has a lot of good insight but is not necessarily an easy read of concepts. But this book does have a lot of good connecting points for how women play out their lives if they grew up without a father.

THANK YOU FOR THE DONATIONS FOR RWANDA 2026 MISSIONS TRIP!!! SO EXCITED!!! GOD IS GOOD!!
11/18/2025

THANK YOU FOR THE DONATIONS FOR RWANDA 2026 MISSIONS TRIP!!!

SO EXCITED!!!

GOD IS GOOD!!

Healing is not a one and done. Learning is not a one and done. Healing and learning is a life long commitment. I have ey...
11/17/2025

Healing is not a one and done.
Learning is not a one and done.

Healing and learning is a life long commitment.

I have eyeballing The James Method verse mapping long enough that I finally pulled the trigger.

Prompted journaling is one of my favorite self explorations!!

Naturally I had to get my friend Esmeralda Delgadillo workbook!!

Why wait until the New Year to start resolutions? Keep healing and growing all year!!!

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The Birth of GPC

Greater Purpose Counseling (GPC) started when I continued to meet people in the Church struggling with various life situations after they were continually told to, ‘Pray on it’, but not encouraging to seek Clinical Professional support. While prayer works, needs to be involved with life situations, there are times that a Clinical Therapist is needed. We are created with a mind, a body, and a spirit that feels all emotions humanly possible. We are not always protected from learned behaviors, internal chemical make-up, or external trauma. As I have met with more people in the Church, it became clear that there was not enough Clinical Professionals to support the people who seek after the heart of God. There are times in life a person may struggle within the Spiritual realm, with needing to change inappropriate learned behaviors, need support with an internal chemical stressor, or need to learn how to live life after trauma.

Many times people struggle with comorbid mental health diagnosis and need support in being able to identify how to separate the various stressors, while applying appropriate coping skills in a judgement free space. It also became clear the while many Church Leaders desire to support the Saints of the Church, they lack in the training due to it not being available to them. Training that supports the Church Team on how to function cohesively, identify mental health behaviors, be trauma informed, learn current language, or identify when they need to refer out will help support the Body of Christ with healing. The lack of continued training has the potential to cause members of the Body of Christ to walk away forever. GPC also recognizes a lack of Clinical support for Ministers and their families when life turns upside down. Just as Job lost everything, our Ministers and their families go through trials that need Clinical support without judgement for being human during very human experiences.

My goal is to support the Body of Christ by bridging both Evidenced Based Clinical Therapy combined with Biblical Christian faith by meeting people where they are at and moving forward through their journey. GPC wants to empower Ministry Teams with education to be able to support the Saints in their home churches or schools. The logo for GPC embodies that we all have roots that support us that are unseen by many people. Situations in our life change as the seasons change the tree with various colors to represent our emotions. As the leaves fall and dissolve, our struggles, stressors, and trauma should also fall off and dissolve with the help of God, prayer, and Clinical therapy. Through the process of therapy, emotions should change, improve, and be full of life while moving forward.