03/04/2025
Prep I wrote for coaching & therapy clients today - Events vs. Experiences:
"At events you watch someone else be creative. And you sit there while they take ownership of the stage.
Experiences are intimate, curated and require your full body participation as a vital part.
At events you sit on the sidelines and consume without having to be expressive, vulnerable, intimate or connected yourself. You wait to be wowed & entertained.
There is no creative courage required. You can instead be an artistic critic, observe & evaluate and maybe even deeply appreciate. But you don't have to get involved.
You sit still, watch a stage and do not move, express, expand, experiment or falter. You avoid the creator role that is built through feeling the internal & external mess. You do not become open or vulnerable. You let others take the intimacy risk.
Our work today moves you out of life events and makes you your life designer.
Design sounds good. But it is active labor.
An event happens to you. You wait on the show or life to happen to you, lead you, and guide you. To tell you you're doing it right. To help you stay affirmed and entertained.
Experience on the other hand is connective & based on what you are willing to create.
You must determine and meet your own desires and needs through lived practice and protocol. You gift yourself the design and experience of these practices. Only then can you invite others to participate through co-creation.
In designing your life experiences in the role of creator - you are empowered and design your own celebrations of yourself.
Others can not rescue you - especially from your relationship with yourself.
On screen or in live event, others cannot stimulate you, enliven you or entertain you. You are not an audience member, your life is more than a series of events.
As an experience designer, you internally become vulnerable, become messy in the creative studio & design the experience you have with yourself. Ready? Let's begin."
I love working with my coaching & therapy clients. Unpacking where their life design beliefs got stuck, aren't working, were interrupted and begining fresh, stable, passionate, secure & safe again.
I have 3 today. After 3 yesterday. More this week and space for you next week. Licensed therapy & coaching info, pricing and consultation links will be in the comments. I accept cards, health savings accounts and some insurances.
I love to work with people ready to take ownership of self as talented creator / designers - not just a survivors - in their lives & their spaces.