02/17/2026
Today we honor the life and legacy of Kay Marlene (Ewert) Graber (1936–2026), whose compassion and leadership helped shape the brain injury movement in our nation. In response to the lack of information and support for individuals and families affected by brain trauma, Kay and other families organized a local support group that grew into a state organization — one of the two founding chapters of the Brain Injury Association of America (BIAA).
Kay’s work didn’t stop there — her advocacy at both the state and federal level helped raise awareness, improve services, and give a voice to those touched by brain injury. She was a true pioneer whose efforts laid the foundation for our national association and for the Brain Injury Association of Iowa, ensuring that families across the country would no longer face this journey alone.
We are forever grateful for her vision, courage, and tireless dedication. Her legacy lives on in the lives she changed and the community she helped build. đź§ đź’™
Kay Marlene (Ewert) Graber, beloved wife, mother, and grandmother, passed away peacefully on February 7, 2026, at the Hallmark Care Center, with her family present. She is survived by her husband Cot; sons, David (Brian Victor) and Jack (Patricia Alvarez); grandsons, Alex, Alan, and Andrés; her bro...