Affirming Psychological Services

Affirming Psychological Services Affirming Psychological Services is a therapy practice based in Irvine, CA.

Finding a therapist who truly understands your identity can make all the difference.At Affirming Psychological Services,...
03/22/2026

Finding a therapist who truly understands your identity can make all the difference.

At Affirming Psychological Services, we provide therapy that is LGBTQIA+ affirming, trauma-informed, and grounded in respect for your lived experience. This means more than being “accepting.” It means actively understanding the impact of identity, systemic stress, and personal history on your mental health, and creating a space where you do not have to explain or defend who you are.

Whether you are exploring identity, navigating relationships, healing from trauma, or managing anxiety or depression, our team is here to support you with care that is informed, intentional, and aligned with your values.

To get started, call (949) 438-3344 or visit [www.affirmingpsychologicalservices.com](http://www.affirmingpsychologicalservices.com)

We’re excited to welcome Sara Hoadley, LMFT, to the team at Affirming Psychological Services.Sara brings over a decade o...
03/16/2026

We’re excited to welcome Sara Hoadley, LMFT, to the team at Affirming Psychological Services.

Sara brings over a decade of clinical experience and will be playing an important role supporting the growth and development of our associate clinicians. Through supervision, consultation, and mentorship, she helps ensure that our therapists continue building strong clinical skills while providing thoughtful, high-quality care to the clients we serve.

Sara’s approach to therapy and supervision centers collaboration, curiosity, and respect. She believes clinicians do their best work when they feel supported, encouraged to ask questions, and empowered to grow. Her guidance helps create a learning environment where clinicians can deepen their skills while staying grounded in affirming, trauma-informed care.

In addition to supervising, Sara will also be seeing a limited number of clients.

We’re grateful to have her leadership helping shape the next generation of affirming clinicians.

Learn more about our team at
www.affirmingpsychologicalservices.com

Ready to take the next step toward healing?At Affirming Psychological Services, we provide mental health care that honor...
03/13/2026

Ready to take the next step toward healing?

At Affirming Psychological Services, we provide mental health care that honors every part of who you are: your identity, your story, your whole self.

We offer a warm, inclusive space for individuals seeking therapy that is respectful, informed, and affirming.

To book with us please call (949) 438-3344 or visit us at www.affirmingpsychologicalservices.com

Emma is a compassionate clinician who works with children, teens, adults, and families navigating trauma, life transitio...
03/05/2026

Emma is a compassionate clinician who works with children, teens, adults, and families navigating trauma, life transitions, and relational challenges. She creates a calm, supportive space where clients feel seen, respected, and empowered to heal in their own way.

With specialized training in Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT) and a trauma-informed, collaborative approach, Emma is especially passionate about supporting those impacted by sexual trauma, family conflict, and complex emotional experiences.

Deeply affirming of LGBTQIA+ identities and committed to inclusive care, Emma brings warmth, intention, and deep respect for every client’s unique story.

Join us in giving Emma a warm welcome as she begins her journey with us!

“It was my fault.”“I should have done something differently.”“The world isn’t safe anymore.”If you’ve experienced trauma...
02/17/2026

“It was my fault.”
“I should have done something differently.”
“The world isn’t safe anymore.”

If you’ve experienced trauma, thoughts like these can feel permanent. They’re not.

Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT) is a structured, evidence-based treatment for PTSD. It was developed by Dr. Patricia Resick and is recommended in major clinical guidelines for trauma treatment.

CPT is based on a simple but powerful idea: after trauma, our brains try to make sense of what happened. In that process, we sometimes develop “stuck points," beliefs about ourselves, others, or the world that keep us trapped in fear, shame, or self-blame.

These beliefs often relate to:
- Safety
- Trust
- Power and control
- Esteem
- Intimacy

CPT helps you examine those beliefs carefully and systematically. Not to dismiss what happened. Not to force positivity. But to ask:

"Is this belief fully accurate?"
"Is it helping me now?"
"Is there a more balanced way to understand what happened?"

Research shows CPT can significantly reduce PTSD symptoms, along with depression, guilt, and shame. It is commonly delivered in about 12 structured sessions and includes guided worksheets, and sometimes writing exercises.

CPT has been studied across many types of trauma, including childhood abuse, military trauma, medical trauma, community violence, religious trauma, and identity-based harm. When delivered well, it makes space for the realities of racism, homophobia, transphobia, and other systemic harms that shape how trauma is experienced.

At Affirming Psychological Services in Orange County, we provide trauma-informed, identity-affirming, evidence-based care.

If you’ve been living with trauma responses and wondering whether they will ever shift, evidence-based treatment exists.

Save this post if you want to learn more about PTSD treatment options.

We kicked off the year by coming together as a team. Good food, meaningful connection, a lot of laughter, and yes, Pazoo...
01/12/2026

We kicked off the year by coming together as a team. Good food, meaningful connection, a lot of laughter, and yes, Pazookies were absolutely involved.

At Affirming Psychological Services, we believe that caring for ourselves and supporting one another is not extra, it is essential. When clinicians are resourced, connected, and supported, we have the capacity to show up fully and thoughtfully for the people we serve.

I am incredibly proud of this team and grateful for the chance to pause, celebrate, and strengthen our community together. It matters to us that our clients know their therapists are not only skilled and compassionate, but also supported and cared for within a healthy professional environment.

- Dr. Katie Moore, PsyD (PSY # 32941)

Polyamory is not a phase, a loophole, or a failure to commit.For many people, it is a genuine and meaningful way of lovi...
12/17/2025

Polyamory is not a phase, a loophole, or a failure to commit.

For many people, it is a genuine and meaningful way of loving, connecting, and building relationship.

You deserve support that respects your values, your structure, and your emotional world.

Your relationships are real.
Your love is real.
Your experiences deserve care.

Trauma changes how the nervous system responds, not who you are capable of becoming.It can show up as overthinking, shut...
12/08/2025

Trauma changes how the nervous system responds, not who you are capable of becoming.

It can show up as overthinking, shutting down, people-pleasing, anger, numbness, hypervigilance, dissociation, or exhaustion. These are not flaws. They are protective patterns your body learned when something felt dangerous.

Healing is not about becoming someone else.

It is about creating safety where there once wasn't enough.

Progress might not look the way you thought it would.

It might be slower, quieter, or messier than expected.

Every bit of progress is a real victory.

Every bit of progress still counts.

If your body responds in ways you don't always understand, you're not failing. You're responding to something that matters and something that once felt unsafe.

Please join us in welcoming Emily Mandelstam, AMFT, to Affirming Psychological Services.Emily specializes in couples and...
12/04/2025

Please join us in welcoming Emily Mandelstam, AMFT, to Affirming Psychological Services.

Emily specializes in couples and relationship therapy and brings a grounded, DBT-informed approach that blends practical skills with real relational insight. She works with individuals, adolescents, and couples across all relationship structures and is affirming of LGBTQ+, ENM, and kink communities.

Emily is supervised by Fae Feliciano, LCSW #103952, and is currently accepting clients for both in-person sessions and telehealth.

We’re grateful to welcome such a thoughtful, skilled clinician to our team.

World AIDS Day is not only about remembrance.It is about truth.ACT UP, the AIDS Coalition to Unleash Power, changed the ...
12/01/2025

World AIDS Day is not only about remembrance.
It is about truth.

ACT UP, the AIDS Coalition to Unleash Power, changed the course of the HIV/AIDS epidemic through direct action, public grief, and relentless demand for medical justice when governments and institutions refused to respond.

They forced public attention when silence was deadly.
They disrupted systems that were letting people die.
They demanded research, treatment access, and dignity for people the world had decided were disposable.

The life-saving treatments that exist today did not arrive through goodwill alone.
They arrived because people refused to be quiet about death.

We honor ACT UP not just as history, but as a reminder: progress is not given.
It is fought for.

Today, HIV is no longer the automatic death sentence we once thought it once was. Testing, treatment, and support save lives. Knowing your status matters. And no one should have to carry fear, diagnosis, or grief alone.

On World AIDS Day, we remember lives lost, communities devastated, and the people who would not allow indifference to be the final answer.



Coping is not about becoming more “palatable.” It is about becoming safer inside your own body.For neurodivergent folks,...
12/01/2025

Coping is not about becoming more “palatable.” It is about becoming safer inside your own body.

For neurodivergent folks, coping is not about forcing calm, masking harder, or pushing through discomfort. It is about listening to your sensory needs, honoring your limits, and using what actually helps instead of what looks “normal.”

Coping can look like movement instead of stillness.

Quiet instead of conversation.

Stimming instead of suppressing.

Rest instead of productivity.

Isolation when connection feels like too much.

There is no right way to regulate your nervous system.

There is only what works for you.

Boundaries are not about punishment.They are about protection.During the holidays, many people feel pressure to show up,...
11/27/2025

Boundaries are not about punishment.

They are about protection.

During the holidays, many people feel pressure to show up, explain themselves, or stay in spaces that feel unsafe or overwhelming. You get to choose your nervous system over expectations. You get to protect your energy. You get to leave early, skip the gathering, change the subject, or say no without defending your decision.

Boundaries are not selfish.

They are how you stay intact.

Address

19712 MacArthur Boulevard, Ste 110
Irvine, CA
92612

Opening Hours

Monday 8am - 8pm
Tuesday 10am - 8pm
Wednesday 8am - 8pm
Thursday 8am - 3pm
Friday 8am - 8pm
Sunday 8am - 5pm

Telephone

+19494383344

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